effee Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 Ok, so here goes, I'm in a pretty new relationship and the girl that I'm seeing has told me, that she has no feeling of interest for me, she just felt comfortable around me which was why she agreed when I asked her to be my gf. Now she doesn't text me, I'm always the one that has to initiate contact with her, if I don't contact her for the whole day, she won't contact me on her own. She doesn't really show the kind of interest in a relationship that I'd like. (Its been awhile since we both dated however so maybe we are just warming up) But still, not contacting me until I contact you? Whats up with that? Now what I'm wondering is that, am I forcing the relationship to go on? If there's no feeling in it? Or should I wait for love to develop, if thats even possible. I don't want to be in a one sided relationship. I've even asked her before, I told her that if she regretted saying yes then she should tell me now rather than 6 months down the road. she said no, she did not have any regrets. I really really need some advice, I don't want to put in my all and end up broken again. What should I do?
HuskerKing Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 Dude, you know what to do! You've already answered your own question. It sucks when you have feelings for someone and they don't receiprocate but that's life. If you stick with her and wait "for her feelings to develop" you are going to wait a long time I believe. She is telling you up front what she feels. If she sticks around and plays on your feelings she is a "witch" and should be flogged!
rubie Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 If she doesn't love you and she admits it, then your relationship is as good as over. Get rid of her.
ThisGirlNameKD Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 If she already told you that she had no romantic interest in you, why are you still pursuing this relationship?
avsguy01 Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 It depends on your situation really. If shes been though a rough relationship before and has gotten her heart broken i could see her having walls up. My girlfriend has walls up, and has told me she wants to move slowly. She tells me she cares deeply about me, but still has those walls up. I just act cool and still am extemely sweet to her naturally. Now shes beginning to come around more and more. The walls are slowly breaking down. You definately need to pull her aside and ask her why she is being this way. This kind of stuff takes some talking.
Artifact Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 Sounds like she's your ex already. Might as well end it officially. Don't torture yourself.
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