Dox Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Sick of slutty, self obsessed girls. Where are all the girls who are genuinely nice, down to earth, laid back, adventurous (loves to travel), has brains? Do they still even exist? Every girl I meet just wants to party every weekend, drink and dress all slutty. Don't get me wrong I like to go clubbing only if there's an occasion. I would rather work hard every week, save money then at the end of the year take a month off with mates and go on a vacation to a nice beach resort somewhere in asia or maybe tour Europe. I'm 20 and I've been doing that for the past 3 years. Where would I find these types of girls? Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Interesting. I think I'm a nice enough girl. I've noticed that a lot of guys, in their 20s at least, don't actually go for that though. They seem to think that excitement and hard partying go hand in hand. I guess you're an exception. I also suppose that these types of girls are a lot more visible than all the others because they're always frequenting places that most people go to hookup, but there are plenty of nice girls. Link to post Share on other sites
Carenth Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Totally the type of girl I go for, I have no interest in party girls. I met them all through university not at parties, just on campus, library or at the cafeteria. Usually I would notice they were studying something I found interesting and would ask them about it. Most would be pretty receptive (I wouldn't bother them if they looked like they were really busy studying). Also met them through friends at very low key get togethers with some friends at the end of the week (BBQs in the summer for example). Also online, I met my girlfriend through a online forum (not LS) meeting her for the first time in person in a few weeks. Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Also online I met my girlfriend through a online forum (not LS) meeting her for the first time in person in a few weeks. You have never met your girlfriend? Eeek. I want to know how it goes! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Good question. It seems a lot of girls these days think sex is expected, so they offer it freely to every guy they date, and it's gotten to be the norm. My son is in college and says the same thing you are--the girls are really permiscuous, and the guys are hitting on everything and anything that resembles a female. He's looking for a nice girl too, and they are hard to come by. My older son, on the other hand, found a nice one in college whom he married. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 At home wondering the same thing about guys. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Carenth Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 You have never met your girlfriend? Eeek. I want to know how it goes! Yeah LDR not something I would really consider normally, but it's been working so far . We live on opposite sides of the globe (I'm in Australia, she's in Canada). So I will be flying over to visit her for 2 weeks. The industry I work in is pretty mobile so... if things go well I wouldn't be opposed to moving over there. I'm somewhat more worried about freezing to death than anything else. I'm used to sub-tropic weather. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 This is a change.. normally guys want to know where the easy party girls are Dox.. the older we get the more our priorities change.. you want girls who aren't party girls.. Until people get partly thru their 20's they are out to just party and are out to have fun... Have you tried to date a little older.. 23 ? Link to post Share on other sites
dasein Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 The non party girls are up early on the weekends doing stuff. They will be out exercising, dog walking, reading, getting coffee then. Early means 8-9AM, not 11-12. But there aren't really very many of them in relation to the party girls, so if young and trying to get one, you will have to pound the pavement some. Link to post Share on other sites
olivec Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Sick of slutty, self obsessed girls. Where are all the girls who are genuinely nice, down to earth, laid back, adventurous (loves to travel), has brains? Do they still even exist? Every girl I meet just wants to party every weekend, drink and dress all slutty. Don't get me wrong I like to go clubbing only if there's an occasion. I would rather work hard every week, save money then at the end of the year take a month off with mates and go on a vacation to a nice beach resort somewhere in asia or maybe tour Europe. I'm 20 and I've been doing that for the past 3 years. Where would I find these types of girls? Join the club my man. I'm in my 30s and would love to find a good woman. But like everyone says it'll happen when you least expect it and when your not looking or when you've totally given up like myself right now. I guess what i'm trying to say is its gunna take time. Link to post Share on other sites
NoMoreJerks Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Sick of slutty, self obsessed girls. Where are all the girls who are genuinely nice, down to earth, laid back, adventurous (loves to travel), has brains? Do they still even exist? Every girl I meet just wants to party every weekend, drink and dress all slutty. Don't get me wrong I like to go clubbing only if there's an occasion. I would rather work hard every week, save money then at the end of the year take a month off with mates and go on a vacation to a nice beach resort somewhere in asia or maybe tour Europe. I'm 20 and I've been doing that for the past 3 years. Where would I find these types of girls? Yes. We exist. Right here. *waves* lol. I hate the clubbing/partying scene. I do go out to drink, but only socially, usually Thursdays or Fridays, mostly with friends (mixed male/female crowd), but also often by myself if my friends are busy (especially lately). I LOVE traveling (sadly, little money right now -- but I do love going anywhere that is doable financially).. am adventurous, love trying just about everything , especially adventure sports , and I sometimes do stuff like urban exploration. Also, have the brains (I guess doing a PhD does imply that I have some brains ? ).. So , shameless self-advertisement aside , yes, we do exist. I might as well ask the same question about men.. where are the nice men, who aren't just looking for ONS and FWB??!??! Link to post Share on other sites
NoMoreJerks Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Yeah LDR not something I would really consider normally, but it's been working so far . We live on opposite sides of the globe (I'm in Australia, she's in Canada). So I will be flying over to visit her for 2 weeks. The industry I work in is pretty mobile so... if things go well I wouldn't be opposed to moving over there. I'm somewhat more worried about freezing to death than anything else. I'm used to sub-tropic weather. lol. Hey now.. I'm from Canada. It's not so bad up here... brrrrrrr. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NoMoreJerks Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 The non party girls are up early on the weekends doing stuff. They will be out exercising, dog walking, reading, getting coffee then. Early means 8-9AM, not 11-12. But there aren't really very many of them in relation to the party girls, so if young and trying to get one, you will have to pound the pavement some. Haha, I don't party, but I do wake up rather late on weekends... 10/11 am is about when I wake up. Unless of course I sleep really early the night before... which is rare. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dox Posted October 27, 2012 Author Share Posted October 27, 2012 Yes. We exist. Right here. *waves* lol. I hate the clubbing/partying scene. I do go out to drink, but only socially, usually Thursdays or Fridays, mostly with friends (mixed male/female crowd), but also often by myself if my friends are busy (especially lately). I LOVE traveling (sadly, little money right now -- but I do love going anywhere that is doable financially).. am adventurous, love trying just about everything , especially adventure sports , and I sometimes do stuff like urban exploration. Also, have the brains (I guess doing a PhD does imply that I have some brains ? ).. So , shameless self-advertisement aside , yes, we do exist. I might as well ask the same question about men.. where are the nice men, who aren't just looking for ONS and FWB??!??! Lol sounds like my exact type. Good to know you guys are still out there, now I just have to find someone in my area haha. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dox Posted October 27, 2012 Author Share Posted October 27, 2012 This is a change.. normally guys want to know where the easy party girls are Dox.. the older we get the more our priorities change.. you want girls who aren't party girls.. Until people get partly thru their 20's they are out to just party and are out to have fun... Have you tried to date a little older.. 23 ? have to admit that was me but I would never date those types my sisters would kill me Hmm older women? maybe. Link to post Share on other sites
utterer of lies Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Also online, I met my girlfriend through a online forum (not LS) meeting her for the first time in person in a few weeks. How can she be your gf if you've never met? That's just grown-ups playing pretend. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 I've been there and it's not easy. Your best bet is to meet a quality girl during college, because once you get out...dating will be that much harder. And even so at that age, most girls are just looking to sleep around or do short-term flings. Doors open up for you with women when you get older, at that point..it's almost like hitting the holy grail. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 If you're not going out socialising/partying, then you're never going to meet 'any' girls. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Every girl I meet just wants to party every weekend, drink and dress all slutty. Don't get me wrong I like to go clubbing only if there's an occasion. I would rather work hard every week, save money then at the end of the year take a month off with mates and go on a vacation to a nice beach resort somewhere in asia or maybe tour Europe. I'm 20 and I've been doing that for the past 3 years. Where would I find these types of girls? You should have found them while you were travelling. Do you not stay in backpacker hostels when you go travelling? Most of the coolest men I've met are men I met travelling, when I was staying in hostels, or doing outdoor activities. Bars are okay if you happen to meet somebody through friends and hit it off, but a lot of the time bar encounters are more about strangers hitting on eachother in an environment that's artificially geared towards encouraging strangers to hit on eachother. It's difficult to make a genuine feeling connection with people in an environment like that....whereas if you were to go, say, whitewater rafting or horseriding and meet a woman in the course of doing that, it would probably feel more natural and special. Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 All quality girls over 25 are scooped up, some exceptions but they make the rule. The ones that are still single are generally somewhere inbetween unable to maintain a relationship and bat**** crazy. I'm sorry, but you have no idea what you're talking about. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Think he said you're not "quality," I got your back I'm not 25 yet, but I've come to notice that there is practically no correlation between the "quality" of a girl and her relationship status. Why? Because those girls acting slutty in the club are doing so because it works. Half of the of guys I know are with women who are completely unstable, unsupportive, and not definitely not attractive enough to make me understand their choices. I also have a hard time believing that RQ knows how to spot a quality woman, just look at the avatar... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
phineas Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Sick of slutty, self obsessed girls. Where are all the girls who are genuinely nice, down to earth, laid back, adventurous (loves to travel), has brains? Do they still even exist? Every girl I meet just wants to party every weekend, drink and dress all slutty. Don't get me wrong I like to go clubbing only if there's an occasion. I would rather work hard every week, save money then at the end of the year take a month off with mates and go on a vacation to a nice beach resort somewhere in asia or maybe tour Europe. I'm 20 and I've been doing that for the past 3 years. Where would I find these types of girls? well, I can tell you there are very few online or in clubs at your age. Actually I can tell you there are very few period at your age. you are living in the hook-up / party hard & plaster it all over social media generation. Half the women that would actually get into a relationship with you at your age will wind up being shady or dropping you when the next shiny object catches her eye. I got a few younger cousins your age brought up in traditional families. The guys have no problem hooking up but can't find a woman that behaves. The girls change their BF's faster than they change their contacts. It blows my mind. Guys your age do the same thing also. It's just how it is these days. Their out there. You just gotta keep looking. Link to post Share on other sites
jcrew11 Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 They are at Church, at the Library, doing volunteer and community service. They go to yoga class and the gym. They don't drink or go to bars. Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 I'd be happy to put my girlfriend there, but then I'd have to have a girlfriend in the first place. As much as I would like that, at some point you have to stop chasing dreams and face reality. You may look down on prostitutes and/or porn and consider it beneath you, but it's the only reality I can achieve. This place is littered with depressing mindsets. I think I'm a classy girl, and I would never date a guy who put a pornographic picture as an avatar. I suppose you do equally crude things in real life. So maybe you don't think that you get a nice girl, but it's a self-fulfilling prophesy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 My opinion in a nutshell.. not sure if you had a chance to read in the other thread I did It was flattering. Link to post Share on other sites
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