cawala Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I met a girl in early September and over a two week period we went out a few times and spoke almost daily. The last time we went out, I had been drinking, I told her I really liked her and then we had sex. I called her three times the next week and got no response. I bumped into her at a bar this past Saturday and she explained that she was not looking for a relationship. I told her that I did not know that and then we started joking around with one another. Well, I messed up and said "See we are really good together" and she walked away from me. On Tuesday I sent her a text saying "I am glad I bumped into you on sat. You are right I was trying to push us towards a relationship, but it was not clear to me that you wanted something more casual. Anyways maybe i'll see you around" She sent back "Thanks for the text. It was good to see you." Now I would rather have a casual relationship with this girl then nothing at all. The fact that she texted me back shows that she doesnt think im a complete weirdo. Do I have any sort of a play here? Should I text her back and say that we can keep it casual? Should I give her space and text her in a month? Or should I just let it be?
Leegh Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I would wait a month or more, and see if she contacts you. She possibly could be playing hard to get, but it seems unclear at this point. With the holiday season coming up, it will be a great time to send her an email saying "Happy Thanksgiving" and a few casual sentences, or you could wait until Christmas and do a similar thing. I think it is not wise to contact her now, unless she gives you encouragement. She will notice if she is not hearing from you, let her wonder how you feel!
Author cawala Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 thanks for the reply. That was what I was thinking with waiting it out and then the whole "Happy t-giving" text if she doesnt contact me.
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