mike5770 Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 I noticed I have gotten to the point where I don't think about my lovecrush all of the time now and when I do I no longer feel anger or pain. I finally realized after breaking no contact for one last ditch effort that it was never meant to be. She said she wanted to come see me and bring her kids which I said of course and we planned a trip to a resort together. Then of course she went back to her old self playing the blow me off game not returning my texts. I sent her one last text saying I can't do this anymore. This timeI think it is for good. I think it is all a process...it is natural to break NC as this is the bargaining part the steps of grief...each time I got the same result..she just does not care about me...eventually it becomes acceptance. I am thinking of all the new opportunities life has to offer...I got a text and of course it wasn't from her...but from a beautiful woman I have been friends with asking what I was doing this weekend! Life goes on!! A great feeling not to feel like crap anymore. I am free. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
River Rain Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 I noticed I have gotten to the point where I don't think about my lovecrush all of the time now and when I do I no longer feel anger or pain. I finally realized after breaking no contact for one last ditch effort that it was never meant to be. She said she wanted to come see me and bring her kids which I said of course and we planned a trip to a resort together. Then of course she went back to her old self playing the blow me off game not returning my texts. I sent her one last text saying I can't do this anymore. This timeI think it is for good. I think it is all a process...it is natural to break NC as this is the bargaining part the steps of grief...each time I got the same result..she just does not care about me...eventually it becomes acceptance. I am thinking of all the new opportunities life has to offer...I got a text and of course it wasn't from her...but from a beautiful woman I have been friends with asking what I was doing this weekend! Life goes on!! A great feeling not to feel like crap anymore. I am free. Congratulations! I know the feeling. Once you're released from all the ups/downs and false hopes, it is very freeing. The breakup step, nc, breaking nc, talking about reconciliation...that is such a roller coaster ride to be on. I'm glad you're past it now. Enjoy the beautiful women you'll meet along the way! Link to post Share on other sites
spaniard Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 I know that feeling I'm happy for you! A few years ago my then girlfriend dumped me. For 6 months I couldn't move on, I made very little process - then I met a girl. We talked for day, we met again a couple o times and guess what - in TWO WEEKS I was over my ex! I couldn't believe it! My next break up is a bit fresher: it was only 4 months ago. It took 3 months to get over her, and now I'm fine and happy. Of course, no contact is alive (till the end of the world lol). It's great to be just fine. Link to post Share on other sites
PYTpisces Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 cant wait to get this to this... it sucks when the pain is so fresh and potent. congrats to you! thanks for reminding me that there is hope Link to post Share on other sites
stemac Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 I think it all depends age to im 43 and finding it very hard the break up of my Relationship its been 8-9-10 weeks I im not counting im not putting an anniversary date on my break up... no way does she deserves anniversary date on it next year, she done enough damage to me, BUT I will live Grow and be stronger, her loss not mine :-) Link to post Share on other sites
radiodarcy Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 Glad to hear you've turned the corner! It really is a good feeling to be over someone once and for all. Unfortunately for me I didnt' get a text from a handsome guy from when way back when. but just being rid of someone as toxic as my ex is enough of a reason to be glad it's over! Link to post Share on other sites
PYTpisces Posted October 31, 2012 Share Posted October 31, 2012 I can see the sun coming over the horizon! I can see the light at the end of the tunnel! I'm still ratchet pissed at him, but i'm starting to put him on the level he deserves to be on (in my life at least). Hes no longer a greek god that I thought I would die without. He's slowly turning back into the loser I thought he was before he "seduced" me with lies and charm. Yay! Link to post Share on other sites
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