taya Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 Hey Taya yup closure is that he left me and yes I know I am also moving on. Time is the greatest healer and I am feeling it too. These situations that we go tru definitely make us stronger person. I read this quote today : Also one thing I would like to share with u that I am feeling this now that why our parents used to say that wish they could be child again... coz they have gone thru all these things...these things have been going on from forever...So, its like that we have just started our real Journey to this world which in reality is cruel and yet beautiful. One need to pick up in which side he or she wants to live, so be optimistic...... hey you on here lol
taya Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 Hey Taya yup closure is that he left me and yes I know I am also moving on. Time is the greatest healer and I am feeling it too. These situations that we go tru definitely make us stronger person. I read this quote today : Also one thing I would like to share with u that I am feeling this now that why our parents used to say that wish they could be child again... coz they have gone thru all these things...these things have been going on from forever...So, its like that we have just started our real Journey to this world which in reality is cruel and yet beautiful. One need to pick up in which side he or she wants to live, so be optimistic...... so so ture wow i like that
Author sissy106 Posted November 7, 2012 Author Posted November 7, 2012 Hey taya I am putting my thing here only... the thing is that I wrote a post "Why cant I speak..." few days back as I was feeling too low that day. Although i am getting over him, but still dat day something was pulling me back and I was too deepressed. And today I got the news that his father died few days back and I am feeling horrible after this news. I was having this great urge to contact him, but u know my present situation. I am feeling sorry for him...wat to do...?
Author sissy106 Posted November 7, 2012 Author Posted November 7, 2012 Moreover I was asking for PM coz there are some people here who are offended coz I am married and still talkin bout my ex...and this is the reason why I today contacted the loveshack moderators for deactivating my account here...but i still have not got reply from them.
Author sissy106 Posted November 7, 2012 Author Posted November 7, 2012 "i will tell you what i would do but i really dont know what you should do ..but this is a guy that stop talking to you and left you he dident even look back to see if you were ok its sad to ear that his dad die but i wouldent contact him that dont mean i dont feel sorry to ear about his father but even if you contact him what diffrence would it make you saying sorry about his dad then thats it ..it suck but he chose to not be in your life ,,so i woudent contact him just say a paryer for him and hope all will be well" Yup u are right
taya Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 Moreover I was asking for PM coz there are some people here who are offended coz I am married and still talkin bout my ex...and this is the reason why I today contacted the loveshack moderators for deactivating my account here...but i still have not got reply from them. wow really but girl i would care less what they think i had to cuss a girl out on here the other day omg i give it to her this site is to help people not to criticize ..i was posting trying to help this guy and out of the blue she come in my conversation calling me ugly omg i tell her come words her ass left i never saw her back on here from that day ..so dont care what they say girl dont leave.. people are always going to talk mess
Author sissy106 Posted November 7, 2012 Author Posted November 7, 2012 But you know, there is some connection between us, coz whenever he used to be in trouble I used to have some intuitions.... he always used to say that we have a strong telepathic connection. But I guess that was not right, it maybe my strong intutive power only. And yes he left me and never looked back, so no use of saying sorry to him by myself. He was very close to his dad and thats why I was getting little sentimental here.. You are right I can only pray for him... Thanks taya..I am much relaxd now..
taya Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 "i will tell you what i would do but i really dont know what you should do ..but this is a guy that stop talking to you and left you he dident even look back to see if you were ok its sad to ear that his dad die but i wouldent contact him that dont mean i dont feel sorry to ear about his father but even if you contact him what diffrence would it make you saying sorry about his dad then thats it ..it suck but he chose to not be in your life ,,so i woudent contact him just say a paryer for him and hope all will be well" Yup u are right yeah thats what i would truly do..this is not someone that looked back to make sure you were ok or to even see what you are up to he just left you and never looked back that i would show me he dont want anything no contact with me so i would leave him alone no matter what
taya Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 But you know, there is some connection between us, coz whenever he used to be in trouble I used to have some intuitions.... he always used to say that we have a strong telepathic connection. But I guess that was not right, it maybe my strong intutive power only. And yes he left me and never looked back, so no use of saying sorry to him by myself. He was very close to his dad and thats why I was getting little sentimental here.. You are right I can only pray for him... Thanks taya..I am much relaxd now.. aww thats good he knew your number email and he never contacted you from he left because he wants know contact so give him know contact
Author sissy106 Posted November 7, 2012 Author Posted November 7, 2012 wow really but girl i would care less what they think i had to cuss a girl out on here the other day omg i give it to her this site is to help people not to criticize ..i was posting trying to help this guy and out of the blue she come in my conversation calling me ugly omg i tell her come words her ass left i never saw her back on here from that day ..so dont care what they say girl dont leave.. people are always going to talk mess Thanks taya, but I cant take that thing anymore... I am on this forum coz this is the only place where I could actually speak watever goin on in my mind. I cant share all these with people around me. But I guess I have to behave like a sane person coz I am married, I am not allowed to be human for that. On the other way married male can disscuss there issues of being involved with other person and that is totally a sane act to discuss as per some of the members here... So I am better off frm here... Wish I could get ur id before leaving...
RogerWallace111 Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 Only read first post, but basically... If the ex can't overcome his issues and has let you leave his life, that's that, and all you can do is try to fully accept it. But, I also would think you should take another look at your relationship with your husband. You don't seem to be in love with him ..? I know this belief can vary between cultures, but just because he is nice to you and provides security, doesn't mean he is worth being tied to for life. Regardless of how you feel about your ex. If I were to get married, and kept thinking about my ex as you are, though it wouldn't mean they didn't treat me badly or that I should be with them, it would make me reconsider how strong my feelings for the new person were. If your feelings for your husband aren't strong enough to overshadow thoughts of your ex, I don't personally think he's someone you should be married to. Again, not saying you should want your ex back, but that maybe you should look for someone else who you can really fall in love with...
taya Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 Thanks taya, but I cant take that thing anymore... I am on this forum coz this is the only place where I could actually speak watever goin on in my mind. I cant share all these with people around me. But I guess I have to behave like a sane person coz I am married, I am not allowed to be human for that. On the other way married male can disscuss there issues of being involved with other person and that is totally a sane act to discuss as per some of the members here... So I am better off frm here... Wish I could get ur id before leaving... hey look in your email i reply back to you lol
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