ReadMyThread Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 People on here say "Delete them! Block them forever!" I never listened. I'm so thankful I never deleted or blocked my ex. Why? Well here's my beautiful story on how Facebook cured my broken heart... Today is my ex's birthday. She turned 17 today. Last night I was going CRAZY! I was thinking "Should I text her happy birthday? I shouldn't but I want to.". Last night I kept telling myself, "I'm going to end-up telling her happy birthday tomorrow. I just know it." So then it hit me. I made a plan. I thought you know what, at 12:30 AM (her birthday) I'm going to check the guy she left me for's Facebook. I KNEW this was a bad idea and that it would hurt me and I would probably see something I wouldn't want to see like a picture of them or something but I knew if I seen something like that it would make me hate her even more and KEEP me from texting her happy birthday. So 12:30 came. It's Thursday, her birthday. I sign into my Facebook then and I have 8 new notifications. ONE OF THEM WAS FROM MY EX! <--- Keep that in mind but I will get back to that... So here I am, signed into Facebook, like I planned, I go to my ex's new guy's page and I seen that he posted a new status on MONDAY. The status said something about Karma and how something happened to him to realize the mistakes he has made. Then at the end of it it says, he goes, "I hate you so much but I will always love you.". Then I see that MY EX commented on that status and said, ":/". That's it. An upset face. I was confused. So confused that it made me to look at my ex's Facebook. So I go to her page and I scroll down and she already has some birthday posts from people because it was her birthday now but I go down and she has 3 new statuses. I'll start with the latest ones since they are less important. She posted one last night. It said something like "tomorrow is my birthday and I have no phone, no car, and I am grounded. I don't think it could get any worse.". I laughed. I seen someone commented this status and asked what happened? She responded with, "alot". Then one of the other new statuses said, "Please nobody text my phone for the next week. I got it taken away." Someone commented on this status and she said she has a court date for something. Now, seeing these two statuses made me realize that she is going back to the person she was BEFORE we dated for 9 months. NOTHING BUT TROUBLE. She use to drink, smoke weed, pop pills, even hurt herself and was ALWAYS in trouble before we got together. When we got together she stopped ALL of this and she would always tell me how she loves how I keep her out of trouble. Her parents would say the same. She would always tell me, "my mom loves you because you keep me out of trouble." lol. Well 2 days after she broke up with me she was already back to drinking and getting drunk. I said to myself then, "she is going to go back to her old self." Looks like I was right. She has a court date, is drinking again and now she's grounded and they only ground her for BIG things. She also said, "alot" when something asked what happened so I KNOW it is something bad/big. So that made me feel better knowing she is now getting in trouble now that I'm gone lol. Now, the status she posted on TUESDAY I will never forget. It said, "I f***** up. Now I have to deal with the consequences :/" She posted this on TUESDAY! Now remember the new notification that I got from her? Well guess what day I got that notification? That's right, TUESDAY! She liked one of my statuses that I posted on APRIL 24TH!!!!!! MONTHS MONTHS MONTHS ago! The status I posted on April 24th said, "Like this status and I will tell you something I never had the guts to." This means she went to my page and was looking ALLL through my stuff and eventually got ALLLL the way back to that and decided to like that. I thought why did she do this? It's obvious she want's me to reach out to her. Maybe she is missing me. I don't know. So I sat and thought about everything I seen then I put together. HE posted that status about "I hate you so much but will always love you" blah blah blah on MONDAY! And SHE posted that status about fuc**** up, having to deal with the consequences AND like that OLD OLD OLD status of mine on TUESDAY! I then thought about when she left me for him. HE was leaving HIS EX GIRLFRIEND because he didn't want to be with her anymore. It hit me. HE is getting back with his EX! lmaoooooo. He is getting back with his ex and now my ex is going to be alone which is why she liked that old a** status and posted that status she posted about f****** up. REVENGE! IT ALL FELL APART LIKE I SAID IT WOULD! lol. Now I don't have to sit and think about them being together or what they are doing because of what I seen. Now I think about her being alone and how she made a huge mistake and how pathetic she is. I laugh about it now. Now I don't sit and cry about her leaving me for him. Now I laugh about everything and how it all fell apart. I feel SOOOOOOOO happy right now. It all fell apart JUST LIKE I SAID IT WOULD! Since he was there for all this time since she has left me she hasn't missed me or tried to talked to me at all but now that he is leaving, she IS GOING to begin to miss me and what we had WATCH! That's why she liked that OLD status trying to me get to talk to her and why said what she said about messing up lol. She's stupid! I'm not expecting for her to come to me now that he is leaving but I just feel soooooo happy and good that what she did to me, he did to her. IT FEELS SO GOOD. If she tries to talk to me in the anytime in the future I'm going to rub ALLLLL of this in her face or just ignore her completely. Did she think they would really work out? lol. So there it is. FACEBOOK cured me. Now I laugh when I think of her instead of cry. Now I feel so much better. I'm not completely over her but this is going to help me sooooo much. Now when I think of her this is what I'll be thinking of and laughing about. Her getting f***** over. I DON'T RECOMMEND CHECKING YOUR EX'S FACEBOOK! I JUST HAPPEN TO GOT LUCKY! lol. My new life is just begining! I WON! YES!!!!
Berna Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Good bro, but I don't understand, what are you feeling happy for? That she is f**ed up? If so, you don't love her and that is your hurt ego speaking. 2
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Good bro, but I don't understand, what are you feeling happy for? That she is f**ed up? If so, you don't love her and that is your hurt ego speaking. I'm happy she isn't going to be with him anymore. It killed me thinking of them being together. Her leaving me for him. Now she is alone just like me.
Own Worst Enemy Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I know this sounds patronising but she's still a child really. Check her fb in ten years, that's who she is! 2
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 I know this sounds patronising but she's still a child really. Check her fb in ten years, that's who she is! Yeah I know. :/. I wish I never fell so deep in love with someone so young. :/
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Age: 17 nuff said. I suppose.
gonefishin Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I just say this with total respect beware of karma. Fair enough that guy is old news don't revell to much in it Cause her loosing him could help into mr perfects arms and your still Alone... Think all my breakup has really thought me is thread that little bit more careful with other people's feelings break ups hurt and hurt bad!! Be a bigger man just get on with your life no need to gloat too much !
veggirl Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 You do win. You are (presumably) a teenager, you have your whole life and lots of love ahead of you! You are very lucky I'm glad you feel better. eta: good to get your first heartbreak over with when you are young, you know now-for future heartbreaks-that you can survive
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 You do win. You are (presumably) a teenager, you have your whole life and lots of love ahead of you! You are very lucky I'm glad you feel better. eta: good to get your first heartbreak over with when you are young, you know now-for future heartbreaks-that you can survive No no no no no no. Future heartbreaks? No no no no no. My heart will never be broken again and I will make sure of that. There IS NO WAY I'm going through this again and that's a promise. It's not even worth it. I'd rather be alone forever than have what she put me through happen again.
gonefishin Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 Can't turn your feelings off like a light switch !! Very high possibility you will be here again and maybe worse When even longer commitment is broken or deeper feelings! But hey maybe you are young I thought this too ... And what's harder is when u least expect it and u think u have a situation under control !!
Carenth Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 You say that now.. but we have the amazing ability to forget and move on. Yes we know the pain we felt at the time was horrible, that fades with time though. Then you meet someone else and do it all over again. It will happen.
AngrySmile Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 No no no no no no. Future heartbreaks? No no no no no. My heart will never be broken again and I will make sure of that. There IS NO WAY I'm going through this again and that's a promise. It's not even worth it. I'd rather be alone forever than have what she put me through happen again. Nope. I'm doing this too :/ Rather be frickin' alone than feel this anymore :/ Even made a bet with a friend I wouldn't fall in love again for 10 years. I don't lose bets, and life has been ****ting on me for the past 4 years. so I'm pretty more 10 years won't be too hard. While I won't promote the gloating, I will say that I'm glad you have some form of closure, as backwards as it may have came to you. Everyone needs that. I wish I got that.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 You say that now.. but we have the amazing ability to forget and move on. Yes we know the pain we felt at the time was horrible, that fades with time though. Then you meet someone else and do it all over again. It will happen. There is no way in hell I'm letting it happen again. Also no way in hell I will ever forget this. She was my first love. But I made a damn promise to myself to not even get close to another girl until I'm 26 years old. For now, every relationship I get into will only last 2 months and I will dump them before I can even develop TRUE feelings for them. Forget it. When I turn 26. Then I'll look for love. For now, I love myself and I'll be alone until then with nothing but one night stands and 2 month relationships in between then which id End. Now I'm going to be one of those "I'm scared to commit" guys. All thanks to her. That F****** b****.
veggirl Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 No no no no no no. Future heartbreaks? No no no no no. My heart will never be broken again and I will make sure of that. There IS NO WAY I'm going through this again and that's a promise. It's not even worth it. I'd rather be alone forever than have what she put me through happen again. Well, "never say never". Although I will say your idea to wait til your mid 20s to pursue a serious relationship is not a bad one.
Glisten Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 Ah the feeling of triumph. Not sure why you lied about her age though. In the very first thread you created you said she was turning 19 but now you say she is turning 17. Odd..
gonefishin Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 I'm gonna be totally honest here!! I think your bloody nuts! But whatever your drinking or taking I'd like some.. All these "ideas & plans" are great but seriously love Won't have received the memo on not falling or anyone !!!
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 Ah the feeling of triumph. Not sure why you lied about her age though. In the very first thread you created you said she was turning 19 but now you say she is turning 17. Odd.. Lol you caught me :/. She just turned 17 two days ago. I'm 19. I didn't want you guys to make fun of me. I turn 20 in December.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 I'm gonna be totally honest here!! I think your bloody nuts! But whatever your drinking or taking I'd like some.. All these "ideas & plans" are great but seriously love Won't have received the memo on not falling or anyone !!! I'm not falling for anyone until I'm 26. If I do before then. I'll move to a f****** different state! Lol. Isn't worth it. 1
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 F:lmao::pain nuts you are !! Lol. I'm not nuts man lol. I'm just saving myself from having to ever be in this kind of pain again. I can't.
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