lilcrazy07 Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 well, me and my boyfriend have been going together for a while now. and it seems as if he is avoiding me. he was suppose to come over here tommorow but, now he says he doesn't now. i am kinda scared that he is seeing his ex-girlfriend behind my back, cuz the past few times we were suppose to go out he always made an excuse. i love him sooo much and i really want to make things work but i can't if he doesn't. i rarely spend time with him and i just learned that he might not be going to the same school as i am this year. so, i want to spend all the time i can with him. i really don't know what to do, he says he isn't but his actions make it seem like he is. i just want to know what i should do, should i dump him and find somebody else, or should i stay and try and make it work? [font=times new roman][/font][color=blue][/color]
uriel Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 It's hard to tell what's going on at a distance. You sound emotionally needy right now. You might be asking for too much time / contact and putting pressure on the relationship because of how you're feeling about your bf going to a different school next year. Then again, he may be thinking it's time to cool things off because of next year. Or, he may just be enjoying the summer with friends etc. and want some time to himself. Have you talked about whether different schools means seeing other people? That seems to me the obvious concern. As for the ex-gf, if he says he's not seeing her, then what reason do you have not to trust him? If you don't trust him, why are you still together? -- uriel
Mr.pos Posted July 31, 2005 Posted July 31, 2005 You should actually find out if hes cheating on you first, before you do anything.
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