SmileFace Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Obesity isn't normal. It's an unhealthy lifestyle and an epidemic in this country. Why are men on here bitter for not wanting to date someone overweight? Then this forum has bitter women since a lot refuse to date short men. Well it is the norm... so I guess that makes it normal. I hate how PC America is.
MrCastle Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 How would you know? Are you overweight? I see overweight women with men all the time. So I will continue to disagree with this. You're right. I lose. The options overweight women have are endless. They just have dicks piled into a wheelbarrow that the dig through and pick at their choosing. How dare I even suggest overweight womn are at a dating disadvantage.
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 No, they are both equally a little less ****ed then people who are not over weight and ugly. Yet they are little less ****ed that ugly fat girls. Yes ugly fat girls may do better than girls who have draining personalities or dead girls. Yet they all have vaginas so they are still all one up from average guys, short guys, fat guys, nice guys, loner guys, guys who play WOW, Indian guys, Asian guys, mix guys, silly guys, red fish , blue fish, guys. Get the point, ok good. Huh? How are they getting a little less ****ed if overweight women are still able to find themselves in a relationship just as much as a thin girl? You would have a better argument if overweight women were not able to get ANY men.
hinatticus Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I think it depends on what the guy puts first in his list of priorities. I'm a sucker for a pretty face. Some guys just want an "ideal" hot body. I've posted before about the body type I like. If a girl is "over weight" according to society but carries her weight well, I'm all for a girl with the pretty face. I don't want obese tho.
SmileFace Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Huh? How are they getting a little less ****ed if overweight women are still able to find themselves in a relationship just as much as a thin girl? You would have a better argument if overweight women were not able to get ANY men. I am not arguing your question has no answer. Yes, overweight women may have a little less choices (less ****ed) but they still have choices, most women do.
mesmerized Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 No, they are both equally a little less ****ed then people who are not over weight and ugly. Yet they are little less ****ed that ugly fat girls. Yes ugly fat girls may do better than girls who have draining personalities or dead girls. Yet they all have vaginas so they are still all one up from average guys, short guys, fat guys, nice guys, loner guys, guys who play WOW, Indian guys, Asian guys, mix guys, silly guys, red fish , blue fish, guys. Get the point, ok good. Mixed guys? Pffff. Certain mixed guys are absolutely gorgeous. And a fat girl would never be noticed if she is somewhere with skinny girls around, having a vagina doesn't help her at all.
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 You're right. I lose. The options overweight women have are endless. They just have dicks piled into a wheelbarrow that the dig through and pick at their choosing. How dare I even suggest overweight womn are at a dating disadvantage. When I was overweight, I still had men (and women) who hit on me everyday. I used to be a model. It was the reason why I stayed overweight so long because I could still get men. Eventually I lost weight because my blood sugar was getting high, and I didn't want to develop diabetes like my grandmother. So the health reasons were the major factor in me getting thin again. 1
Imported Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 No such thing as a fat girl with a gorgeous face. Bury any face under mounds of fat and it is ugly. Completely changes the face when you can't even see bone structure. Jawline? Not when they have 3 chins.
D-Lish Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 As a woman over 40, I just like to keep myself as thin as possible. I don't want to combine being over 40 with being fat on top of my age! I have a friend that is 15 years younger than I am, and very pretty- but also about 80lbs overweight. I get hit on more often despite being older- I assume it's because I am really thin.
SmileFace Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Mixed guys? Pffff. Certain mixed guys are absolutely gorgeous. And a fat girl would never be noticed if she is somewhere with skinny girls around, having a vagina doesn't help her at all. I was only joking with that list. I listed guys as well, so it was a joke. Plus I don't agree most girls have way more options than any guy - sobeit if it isn't the options we want.
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 No such thing as a fat girl with a gorgeous face. Bury any face under mounds of fat and it is ugly. Completely changes the face when you can't even see bone structure. Jawline? Not when they have 3 chins. not every big girl gets fat in the face. There are some overweight women who still have very thin pretty faces. 1
MrCastle Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 When I was overweight, I still had men (and women) who hit on me everyday. I used to be a model. It was the reason why I stayed overweight so long because I could still get men. Eventually I lost weight because my blood sugar was getting high, and I didn't want to develop diabetes like my grandmother. So the health reasons were the major factor in me getting thin again. But that's the whole thing. Being overweight is not normal. If it was a normal lifestyle your health would be--in the normal range. Look, I don't discriminate against anybody; but what I will not do is encourage people to live an unhealthy lifestyle. Let's say for the sake of argument you were getting men; so what? Getting men isn't going to improve your health. You shouldn't be gaining or losing weight for others; you should be doing it for yourself. I'd say the same thing to a girl starving herself to lose weight and get men. 2
Imported Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 not every big girl gets fat in the face. There are some overweight women who still have very thin pretty faces. Yep, and everyone over 40 that says they look 25 to 30 are not delusional. Hell, someone might have even made an offhand comment that confirms their belief.
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 But that's the whole thing. Being overweight is not normal. If it was a normal lifestyle your health would be--in the normal range. Look, I don't discriminate against anybody; but what I will not do is encourage people to live an unhealthy lifestyle. Let's say for the sake of argument you were getting men; so what? Getting men isn't going to improve your health. You shouldn't be gaining or losing weight for others; you should be doing it for yourself. I'd say the same thing to a girl starving herself to lose weight and get men. For me being overweight was not normal because typically I am thin. However, for other women, it may be normal. There are some overweight girls who are very healthy. I was not one of them. I lost the weight for ME, because my blood sugar began to get ridiculously high and I didn't want to develop diabetes. If it wasn't for that, I probably wouldn't care about being thin. In fact, I gained weight because I got sick of being harassed by men. I used to be a model and it seemed like I was always treated like a piece of meat everywhere I went. At work I had male co-workers, even my manager trying to sleep with me. I've been sexually harassed a number of times on the job. By men and women (who were lesbians) So I gained weight to get them to leave me alone. And it still didn't help much.
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Yep, and everyone over 40 that says they look 25 to 30 are not delusional. Hell, someone might have even made an offhand comment that confirms their belief. There are some people over 40 who look much younger than what they are. Not everyone ages the same. you sound very bitter and like you don't get out much
ascendotum Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Do you think that a woman who is very thin, however unattractive will have an easier time dating than an overweight girl with a gorgeous face? Its always much easier dealing with actual candidates than hypotheticals for something like this, as people can easily imagine something in their mind that is quite different to others. Going with those pics somedude's posted, I reckon the thin girl would have way more options than the big girl. I've known a few girls like the first thin one, and they had to deal with lots of guys that would just shag her then stick around for a little while, before finding a more attractive girl, but they were never single for long. There are plenty of guys that would be happy to have trim bod girl with long blond hair even if she was a little weird looking. I don't know too many gorgeous big girls that are single for long stretches either. There are plenty of overweight guys out there for them.
Jamesblame Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 In my experience, chubby and overweight younger girls....not morbidly obese ones... look pretty good naked. The older they get though....not so much. Basically starting at 25 your body will reflect how healthy you are. But when you're young...I do like a curvy ass and pretty face.
Imported Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 There are some people over 40 who look much younger than what they are. Not everyone ages the same. you sound very bitter and like you don't get out much I just don't think fat girls have pretty faces. Sure, some women I see that are fat, if they lost the weight they'd look great, but as it is, they are just fat. I don't chase fat girls, I know some guys do, but no doubt if they thought they could actually get a girl that is fit and attractive, then they would. No doubt not everyone ages the same. Many women over 40 that are fit and attractive and many women under 30 that are fat slobs. However, there are lots of people out there that think they look younger than they are....but no they don't. Just like fat girls that say they're "curvy".
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 (edited) I just don't think fat girls have pretty faces. Sure, some women I see that are fat, if they lost the weight they'd look great, but as it is, they are just fat. I don't chase fat girls, I know some guys do, but no doubt if they thought they could actually get a girl that is fit and attractive, then they would. No doubt not everyone ages the same. Many women over 40 that are fit and attractive and many women under 30 that are fat slobs. However, there are lots of people out there that think they look younger than they are....but no they don't. Just like fat girls that say they're "curvy". I explained to you that not all fat girls have "fat faces", with double chins. When I was overweight, my face was still very thin, and you could see my bone structure very well. People would often stop me on the street to tell me how pretty my face was. I know some guys do, but no doubt if they thought they could actually get a girl that is fit and attractive, then they would. You sound like a man who hates women Edited October 26, 2012 by MissJoness
somedude81 Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 For me being overweight was not normal because typically I am thin. However, for other women, it may be normal. OK, take a second to take in and understand this word, overweight. I'll break it down even further, over weight. Now does it seem that it would be normal for somebody to be overweight? If it was normal, then why would their weight be mentioned at all?
hurting tonight Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Why such a dislike towards overweight people?
MrCastle Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I do like a curvy ass and pretty face. Hey who you tellin'
Eternal Sunshine Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Haha this is my dilemma. I have a longish face and at lower weights, my face starts to look unattractive, almost horsey - my own brother told me that But at lower weights, my body looks hotter. So to keep a "happy medium", I can't let my weight drop too low. I need to go for the optimal body/face ratio which still puts me at too curvy category for some men. Oh well. 1
Minka333 Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 * ...I got sick of being harassed by men. I used to be a model and it seemed like I was always treated like a piece of meat everywhere I went. At work I had male co-workers, even my manager trying to sleep with me. I've been sexually harassed a number of times on the job. By men and women (who were lesbians) So I gained weight to get them to leave me alone. And it still didn't help much. Yeah, i could totally relate... I was thin at 108(also used to model like you)..some people liked me like that. But there was a time when i gained like 20lbs and basically it's still the same reaction. Some men even preferred i have more meat. And the sexual innuendoes never stops..on the street, mall..etc. The attention felt flattering and degrading at the same time. *Now at 118lbs, and i don't care anymore what everyone thinks coz' no matter what i say or do, it's beyond my control how other people will perceive me. It's just best to ignore those silly below the belt remarks.* My sister who is overweight doesn't get much attention as i do(has a pretty face too), BUT i've always envied her coz' compared to the long list of superficial/shallow men who were after me, she mostly gets the shortlist of nice/true men who genuinely likes her as a person. And i had to sift and filter thru a lot to find out who is the real deal or not (especially those who just wants a piece of ass). 1
MrCastle Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Haha this is my dilemma. I have a longish face and at lower weights, my face starts to look unattractive, almost horsey - my own brother told me that But at lower weights, my body looks hotter. So to keep a "happy medium", I can't let my weight drop too low. I need to go for the optimal body/face ratio which still puts me at too curvy category for some men. Oh well. You look fine to me. Wouldn't mind going down under. Wouldn't mind visiting Australia either.
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