MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Do you think that a woman who is very thin, however unattractive will have an easier time dating than an overweight girl with a gorgeous face?
somedude81 Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 ROFL I found pictures. Hot body Pretty face Choices, choices. 1
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Yeaaaaaap... beauty, shallowly, is only a light-switch away. Where as nothing is going to make the fat go away except hard work and a healthier lifestyle. Me myself...I can find something about an ugly-duckling to be aroused about, an over weight woman, notsomuch. one effects every aspect of their lives, the other one is just a handicap in the dating world. Interesting. An ugly woman can't do anything about being ugly, however a pretty overweight girl can easily lose weight. I'd rather be overweight and pretty than ugly and thin. 2
Eternal Sunshine Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 ROFL I found pictures. Hot body Pretty face Choices, choices. Nice examples somedude 1
mesmerized Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Let me tell you a secret. A pretty face is the best feature a woman can have to attract men. A beautiful overweight person can always change her weight but one cant change her face easily. 2
MrCastle Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 It depends. Right off the bat, the skinny woman with an ugly face wins out, but if the heavy girl drops the weight, she becomes a hot chick with some curves left over. I know women bitch on here all the time about men not liking big girls but; barring health problems, they can lose the weight. Short guys can't just up and decide to grow. 1
somedude81 Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Nice examples somedude Why thank you. Pictures are worth a thousand words ----- Even though the bigger girl is much prettier than the thin one, I do think the thin girl has an easier time dating.
mesmerized Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Nice examples somedude I think the second girl is pregnant. No way thats just overweight.
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 It depends. Right off the bat, the skinny woman with an ugly face wins out, but if the heavy girl drops the weight, she becomes a hot chick with some curves left over. I know women bitch on here all the time about men not liking big girls but; barring health problems, they can lose the weight. Short guys can't just up and decide to grow. I've seen a lot of overweight women who have no problems finding men. So, I disagree with it being a handicap in the dating world. However, online the men act as if its a huge hinderance for most women when its really not. 1
MrCastle Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I've seen a lot of overweight women who have no problems finding men. So, I disagree with it being a handicap in the dating world. However, online the men act as if its a huge hinderance for most women when its really not. I think people of both sexes that are overweight are going to have their options limited when compared to the options of a skinnier person, sure. I wouldn't call it a handicap because I think that's just wrong; but if we're being realistic, overweight people do not have the same options.
SmileFace Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I try to be more understanding of overweight females. Yes, I can understand losing weight is hard - I can't understand not wanting to but rather sit and bitch..."Oh he shouldn't be so shallow, love me for me". Well that tire around your waist is you - said the previously morbidly obese girl, shrugs. Anywho if I was a dude - I will probably rather two, only because it looks so soft. Haha that is my closest indication of what guys may think - I don't know. Yet, I wouldn't want a soft guy, go figure. 1
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 I think people of both sexes that are overweight are going to have their options limited when compared to the options of a skinnier person, sure. I wouldn't call it a handicap because I think that's just wrong; but if we're being realistic, overweight people do not have the same options. How would you know? Are you overweight? I see overweight women with men all the time. So I will continue to disagree with this. 1
SmileFace Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 How would you know? Are you overweight? I see overweight women with men all the time. So I will continue to disagree with this. No, he isn't saying overweight women can't get guys. Anyone with a vagina can do that. As a former obese women my dating options were more limited. Yes, I could have had numerous relationships and several guys who would looked over my size or really liked. 5
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 No, he isn't saying overweight women can't get guys. Anyone with a vagina can do that. As a former obese women my dating options were more limited. Yes, I could have had numerous relationships and several guys who would looked over my size or really liked. Your options were not so limited to the extent that you couldn't find a relationship. There was still someone out there who wanted you. But just because a certain sector of men were not interested in you does not warrant the notion that overweight women have a hard time dating.
SmileFace Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Your options were not so limited to the extent that you couldn't find a relationship. There was still someone out there who wanted you. Now, if you couldn't find ANYBODY than yes, I would consider that a major limitation. Generally no, one has a major limitation - mostly everyone can find someone to date. If they tried hard enough. A limitation is a limitation. What group will have a major limitation?
dasein Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Do you think that a woman who is very thin, however unattractive will have an easier time dating than an overweight girl with a gorgeous face? Yep, no doubt about it.
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Generally no, one has a major limitation - mostly everyone can find someone to date. If they tried hard enough. A limitation is a limitation. What group will have a major limitation? Old people who are way past their prime.
SmileFace Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Old people who are way past their prime. Ok who else?
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Ok who else? This is getting off topic I had gotten overweight at one point in my life, and I still had men chasing after me. Even a doctor. However, I used to be a model when I was a teenager so perhaps my good looks played a factor.
somedude81 Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Ok who else? *Raises his hand* "I know!" This is getting off topic *Put's his hand down* As for the thread topic. Both types of women will have it harder then "normal" looking girls. But they still will be able to get men.
Weezy1973 Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Being only average in looks myself, this is a common choice. I choose the nice body every time. I have friends that choose the pretty face. I think, in general, like attracts like. I'm average looking, but slim and fit. My friends are overweight.
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 *Raises his hand* "I know!" *Put's his hand down* As for the thread topic. Both types of women will have it harder then "normal" looking girls. But they still will be able to get men. lol How are they having it harder if they are still able to get men?? And what do you mean by 'normal' looking girls? are you suggesting overweight women are not normal? wow this forum is full of incredibly sexist and bitter men 1
MrCastle Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 lol How are they having it harder if they are still able to get men?? And what do you mean by 'normal' looking girls? are you suggesting overweight women are not normal? wow this forum is full of incredibly sexist and bitter men Obesity isn't normal. It's an unhealthy lifestyle and an epidemic in this country. Why are men on here bitter for not wanting to date someone overweight? Then this forum has bitter women since a lot refuse to date short men. 2
SmileFace Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Do you think that a woman who is very thin, however unattractive will have an easier time dating than an overweight girl with a gorgeous face? No, they are both equally a little less ****ed then people who are not over weight and ugly. Yet they are little less ****ed that ugly fat girls. Yes ugly fat girls may do better than girls who have draining personalities or dead girls. Yet they all have vaginas so they are still all one up from average guys, short guys, fat guys, nice guys, loner guys, guys who play WOW, Indian guys, Asian guys, mix guys, silly guys, red fish , blue fish, guys. Get the point, ok good. 1
Author MissJoness Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Obesity isn't normal. It's an unhealthy lifestyle and an epidemic in this country. Why are men on here bitter for not wanting to date someone overweight? Then this forum has bitter women since a lot refuse to date short men. You are misunderstanding things. There is a huge difference between being overweight and obese. Huge difference. I am not talking about obese women
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