jerba Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Are there guys that actually accept the breakup instead of begging/pleading? Yes. She woke me up to break up with me over skype @ 2am after getting back from a "shirtless" party she didn't tell me about. She told me she thought we should break up, which was a complete 180 from some stuff she said just a day or two before, and I told her I still had feelings for her but if she didn't want to be with me then I can't force her to stay. I haven't contacted her since then. It was really confusing and I still don't really have answers but I'm happy with how I handled it.
Author blue_jay_bird Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 this is a stupid question but this is the internet. But, my Ex seemed so sure of himself, it's like he made a decision and there's no way of changing his mind. If i just talked to him about it, couldn't i have changed his mind. And worked on it from there. ??
Simon Phoenix Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 this is a stupid question but this is the internet. But, my Ex seemed so sure of himself, it's like he made a decision and there's no way of changing his mind. If i just talked to him about it, couldn't i have changed his mind. And worked on it from there. ?? Nothing you say or do will change his mind. He has to change his mind on his own. So no, if you would have talked to him about it, it wouldn't have made a lick of difference. Probably would have made it worse. 1
taya Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 Nothing you say or do will change his mind. He has to change his mind on his own. So no, if you would have talked to him about it, it wouldn't have made a lick of difference. Probably would have made it worse. i agree fully
AngrySmile Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 >.> You know what bothers me about that? The whole "never changing their mind thing?" No one's mind ever changes unless present with an opportunity to grow. And they anyone closes their mind off to that possibility-then they are as close minded as they come. Which is why I say what the hell. Beg. Plead. Cry, whine, Write letters. Fight, Break a window. Hold a boombox over your head and stand in front of their window. Travel to Australia to box a kanga. Keep in touch with their family. Make new friends. Leave roses. Volunteer at a soup kitchen. (why does everyone recommend this?) Do all of it and fail. Prove to yourself you can do it. Then do it for someone else. Prolly yourself first. :/ Cause if you put in all that work to someone that does not like you at all, imagine what you can do for someone that loves you.
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