hmgiby Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Here's the situation: Need some advice please. Gf is currently dumping me because my parents currently don't approve of her. They say it's fine if we just date around but they don't approve of us getting married. My Gf is accusing me of not trying hard enough to change their attitude towards her and another thing is that there's a chance I might go out of the country in one year, so possibly a LDR.. The other day she started deleting my whatsapp and facebook...etc The last thing I said to her was that I would try my best and change, so she kept my whatsapp. Then she randomly added me again and started call and texting me the whole day. For some reason, I tried using no contact principle on her but eventually picked up her call later on. I'm starting to wonder if she truly loves me. Because if she did, wouldn't she be a bit more patient? She's been giving me pressure to commit and marry even though she plans to do so 3-4 years later. Help, very confused. I'm sorry if this post is all over the place.
River Rain Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Here's the situation: Need some advice please. Gf is currently dumping me because my parents currently don't approve of her. They say it's fine if we just date around but they don't approve of us getting married. My Gf is accusing me of not trying hard enough to change their attitude towards her and another thing is that there's a chance I might go out of the country in one year, so possibly a LDR.. The other day she started deleting my whatsapp and facebook...etc The last thing I said to her was that I would try my best and change, so she kept my whatsapp. Then she randomly added me again and started call and texting me the whole day. For some reason, I tried using no contact principle on her but eventually picked up her call later on. I'm starting to wonder if she truly loves me. Because if she did, wouldn't she be a bit more patient? She's been giving me pressure to commit and marry even though she plans to do so 3-4 years later. Help, very confused. I'm sorry if this post is all over the place. Not sure why you let your parents have any say whatsoever in your love life, but I personally wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't make his own decisions in that regard. Using a "no contact principle" on a person is just messing with their emotions and it's really immature. She's wanting commitment from you because she wants to see if you really are serious about "trying your best" and changing. A person can only be patient so long before they get fed up if they don't see any changes. Have you followed up on your promise? Did you make it clear to your parents that they have no say in your relationship? This is why she broke up with you, so this is what she's waiting to see you change.
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