CptSaveAho Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Don't forget a recent amphetamine phase. When you already have a million dollar winning lottery ticket, whats 5 more dollars?
Author Burt1976 Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 This thread has evidently turned sour and you're all ganging up on me. I believe I'll need to bail out at this point as I didn't come here for that. I tried making things as clear as possible as to what kind of 'help' and 'advice' I need but everyone (almost) preferred focusing on what they consider negative (even though I made it clear that it's these 'negative' things that have always fascinated me. The vanilla lifestyle is just not for me even though thats pretty much the only thing I've experienced. To me, that isn't living. I had trouble with our different backgrounds and I still do. Maybe Im just too ****ed up to make myself understood. All I wanted was a little respect for my choices, leaving was never an issue as I do love her beyond anything else. Different strokes for different folks. Oh and by the way, shes back to being her old skinny self again and shes drop dead gorgeous. It wont be easy, no relation really is, but you cant argue with love, when its there and say what you will... Its here. Only time will tell if you guys were right or not and Ill bump the thread to let you all know at one point in the future, but at this point, I dont expect anything more than insults in me and my gfs regard, so I wont be answering any more such posts. Would just like to leave by thanking those who were supportive (you k ow who you are). Farewell, sorry to have been a freak. Guess that just confirms what Ive always suspected.
todreaminblue Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 This thread has evidently turned sour and you're all ganging up on me. I believe I'll need to bail out at this point as I didn't come here for that. I tried making things as clear as possible as to what kind of 'help' and 'advice' I need but everyone (almost) preferred focusing on what they consider negative (even though I made it clear that it's these 'negative' things that have always fascinated me. The vanilla lifestyle is just not for me even though thats pretty much the only thing I've experienced. To me, that isn't living. I had trouble with our different backgrounds and I still do. Maybe Im just too ****ed up to make myself understood. All I wanted was a little respect for my choices, leaving was never an issue as I do love her beyond anything else. Different strokes for different folks. Oh and by the way, shes back to being her old skinny self again and shes drop dead gorgeous. It wont be easy, no relation really is, but you cant argue with love, when its there and say what you will... Its here. Only time will tell if you guys were right or not and Ill bump the thread to let you all know at one point in the future, but at this point, I dont expect anything more than insults in me and my gfs regard, so I wont be answering any more such posts. Would just like to leave by thanking those who were supportive (you k ow who you are). Farewell, sorry to have been a freak. Guess that just confirms what Ive always suspected. I wish you and your gf the best, hope you have happiness in your relationship and everything works out for you ....good luck.....deb
Author Burt1976 Posted November 26, 2012 Author Posted November 26, 2012 I wish you and your gf the best, hope you have happiness in your relationship and everything works out for you ....good luck.....deb Thank you Deb. Thank you for your kind words and advice. I believe you are the only one here who was able to see the bigger picture and who could actually relate to my story. It's been exactly a year yesterday since me and my GF have been together and I've never felt so much in love. These recent revelations have been a struggle for me (and her), but ultimately, through our openness to discuss issues, it's brought us even closer and we realize how much we mean for each other. I'm going into therapy today and she's behind me 100%. I'm diving head first into this one. 1
veggirl Posted November 26, 2012 Posted November 26, 2012 Just because you disagree with what people say doesn't mean we are like, making character assassinations. Well good luck.
veggirl Posted November 27, 2012 Posted November 27, 2012 You can google or search on here "retroactive jealousy" and find some stuff that might help you since you want to see this relationship through.
Author Burt1976 Posted December 19, 2012 Author Posted December 19, 2012 Only time will tell if you guys were right or not and Ill bump the thread to let you all know at one point in the future... BPD... Borderline Personality Disorder. :S
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