jayy23 Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 After nearly 4months of NC I thought by now that she would have tried to contact me but she hasent. I'm not doin NC to get her back I know for the most part that ain't goina work. But when we last spoke she said she wanted to try and be friends but wanted to have a few months of NC before we tried. How much longer will it take her to feel ready enough to contact me if she even does atall. I've accepted we are NOT goina be getting back together but would like to see her to see how things are. How realistic is it that she will even contact me?
JustALittleBit Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Only you know your ex. I think the best way to tell is what she's done in previous relationships... has she walked away or does she end up friends with her exes?
Simon Phoenix Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Who knows. Best not to worry about it. It will probably come when you least expect it to.
Author jayy23 Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Only you know your ex. I think the best way to tell is what she's done in previous relationships... has she walked away or does she end up friends with her exes? I can't tell from that the only guy she was with before me was wen she was 15 haha. We started our relationship when she was 16 just turning 17 she's now 21 nearly 22. I'm 24.
Author jayy23 Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 She probably won't contact her, and you shouldn't contact her. It's only going to prove to stir you. Move on, I think the suns coming up tomorrow and it's a new day, you can do anything you want with it from what I hear. I am moving on.... but would still like to here from her its a bit of a waste to throw everything that we had away. Even if we can just talk now and again that would be fine with me.
Jamesblame Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I understand how you feel. I'm friends with my big ex. But honestly just move on with your life while she takes some time to move on with her. Also needless to be said , if you want to be friends then you need to wait until you aren't romantic toward her and must tell her that you want to be friends at that point. ...screw that... edit: You should tell her what you like about her and how even though it wasn't great, there were moments you value, and was hoping that you two could remain on friendly terms and catch up every now ant then.
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