taya Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 So girls we know most have us have this problem we know we shouldent text him but we still do it making our self look a fool ..so what you girls do everday to stop from texting him?????????
xdahliax Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Exert self-control. He's a mere mortal, you know... If you can't, delete his number and wait for him to text you first.
SmileFace Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 If I don't want to text someone, I don't. I really shouldn't want to text someone if it would make me look like a fool. If that fails - delete his number. I can't tell how much guys numbers I just delete out of my phone.
Author taya Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Exert self-control. He's a mere mortal, you know... If you can't, delete his number and wait for him to text you first. i agree and it use to be hard as hell for me but i learn my lession a few times and can control my self now but i have some girl friends that wont stop texting even when its the guy that left them
Author taya Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 If I don't want to text someone, I don't. I really shouldn't want to text someone if it would make me look like a fool. If that fails - delete his number. I can't tell how much guys numbers I just delete out of my phone. lol yeah so true
MrCastle Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 So girls we know most have us have this problem we know we shouldent text him but we still do Wow really? This is news to me. In my experience it's the opposite. The girl never texts first under any circumstances even if she really wants to. Learn something new everyday on here.
Author taya Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 Wow really? This is news to me. In my experience it's the opposite. The girl never texts first under any circumstances even if she really wants to. Learn something new everyday on here. hahaha even with me i have always text when i should not girls are more emotional we always trying to fixs stuff even when he is the one that leaves us we always worring and waiting by the phone and always wondering whats up
NoMoreJerks Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 So girls we know most have us have this problem we know we shouldent text him but we still do it making our self look a fool ..so what you girls do everday to stop from texting him????????? If a guy I'm interested in does not text me, I delete his number. If he texts me afterwards, depending on what he said, I may or may not respond. If he was apologetic for taking so long to text, etc., then I might consider responding. Otherwise, it's adios (in other words, I ignore the text, and delete it, don't reply to it).
NoMoreJerks Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 (edited) The girl never texts first under any circumstances even if she really wants to. Learn something new everyday on here. I texted the guy I met 3 days ago. He didn't text me for 2 days after we met. I waited 2 days for him to text me, gave him the benefit of the doubt, said, he might be busy, or he might be doin the 3-day contact "rule", but he didn't text me by the third day, so I said, what the heck, let me text him, who cares who initiates the text, maybe he thinks I'm not interested and doesn't want to risk rejection. So I did, and he didn't reply until a day and a half later... by then, I had deleted his number and moved on. I have not replied to his text, and will not. That is lame. If you are not interested in me, have the balls and the respect to tell that to my face instead of not responding to my texts until a day and a half later. Edited October 26, 2012 by NoMoreJerks 1
Author taya Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 I texted the guy I met 3 days ago. He didn't text me for 2 days after we met. I waited 2 days for him to text me, gave him the benefit of the doubt, said, he might be busy, or he might be doin the 3-day contact "rule", but he didn't text me by the third day, so I said, what the heck, let me text him, who cares who initiates the text, maybe he thinks I'm not interested and doesn't want to risk rejection. So I did, and he didn't reply until a day and a half later... by then, I had deleted his number and moved on. I have not replied to his text, and will not. That is lame. If you are not interested in me, have the balls and the respect to tell that to my face instead of not responding to my texts until a day and a half later. i agree with you girl
mortensorchid Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I know the feeling, and yes I am guilt of it myself. I've sent a text message to someone saying "I miss you", or "Happy birthday" even though we were no longer speaking. No response. Ah well, we live and we learn and move on. If he cared enough about you he would respond in some way, but if not, that's that. 1
Author taya Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 I texted the guy I met 3 days ago. He didn't text me for 2 days after we met. I waited 2 days for him to text me, gave him the benefit of the doubt, said, he might be busy, or he might be doin the 3-day contact "rule", but he didn't text me by the third day, so I said, what the heck, let me text him, who cares who initiates the text, maybe he thinks I'm not interested and doesn't want to risk rejection. So I did, and he didn't reply until a day and a half later... by then, I had deleted his number and moved on. I have not replied to his text, and will not. That is lame. If you are not interested in me, have the balls and the respect to tell that to my face instead of not responding to my texts until a day and a half later. i cant help but to wonder what was his reply a day and a half later??
Author taya Posted October 26, 2012 Author Posted October 26, 2012 I know the feeling, and yes I am guilt of it myself. I've sent a text message to someone saying "I miss you", or "Happy birthday" even though we were no longer speaking. No response. Ah well, we live and we learn and move on. If he cared enough about you he would respond in some way, but if not, that's that. aww am sorry that happen to you ....and thats what i was talking about i did what you did too even tho i know i should not but i have learn from doing this a few times but its very hard to stop it you keep thinking if that person even is thinking about you ...but i guess we know the answer beacuse if they were they would have text or call
curlygirl40 Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I'm usually good with self control, but in cases where I worry I will not be, I will write down the last 4 digits of his phone number (incase he texts me down the line I will know who it is) and delete the number. With a lot of these smart phones there are programs that allow you to take notes, like 'milk, bread....' etc. Mine looks like this: Tony - 4837 Mike - 8379 LOL Fake names and numbers but you get my point.
Eternal Sunshine Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 I have no self control so I just delete number and all logs to make sure I don't have it I can't tell you how many times I have reached for the phone to text a guy only to realize that I don't have his number anymore 1
NoMoreJerks Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 (edited) i cant help but to wonder what was his reply a day and a half later?? No apology for not responding earlier. Not even a "I was busy" lame excuse.. I had said that I had had a good time with him, and asked if he wanted to go to dinner some time. He said he had a good time with me too, and that he'd like to go to dinner, and suggested (tentatively) a Saturday (didn't specify THIS Saturday), but said that he can't confirm yet since he might be unable to take the weekend off (he's in the army and sometimes they don't get weekends off for one reason or another). Fair enough, but I didn't feel the need to respond. If he is interested he will mssg me or call me and confirm if he is available on saturday. I'm not initiating another chain of text mssges. I did more than enough by texting him first. If he had at least responded right away instead of taking a day and a half to respond, I would've given him the benefit of the doubt. His loss. I deleted his number not because I don't have self-control, but because I don't feel the need to have his number on my phone anymore. Even if I had his number on my phone, I still would not text him. It's just that I don't see the point of having a stranger's number on my phone whom I don't want to see again. Edited October 26, 2012 by NoMoreJerks
Author taya Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 No apology for not responding earlier. Not even a "I was busy" lame excuse.. I had said that I had had a good time with him, and asked if he wanted to go to dinner some time. He said he had a good time with me too, and that he'd like to go to dinner, and suggested (tentatively) a Saturday (didn't specify THIS Saturday), but said that he can't confirm yet since he might be unable to take the weekend off (he's in the army and sometimes they don't get weekends off for one reason or another). Fair enough, but I didn't feel the need to respond. If he is interested he will mssg me or call me and confirm if he is available on saturday. I'm not initiating another chain of text mssges. I did more than enough by texting him first. If he had at least responded right away instead of taking a day and a half to respond, I would've given him the benefit of the doubt. His loss. I deleted his number not because I don't have self-control, but because I don't feel the need to have his number on my phone anymore. Even if I had his number on my phone, I still would not text him. It's just that I don't see the point of having a stranger's number on my phone whom I don't want to see again. yeah i ear ya and agree i have learn my lession to have self control. before i dident i had this guy treated me so bad because i dident know to just let him go when i call he never pick up his phone but i keep calling and texting making a fool out of my self acting all desparet and he use it against me and did some dirty stuff to me.. but one day i finally woke up and stop it and when i stop i let him go completly ....what gos around comes around he sarted to text me none stop and i never answer its been one year now i havent talk to him or see him but he still keep texting me but i never reply ...
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