tizmos Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 I was in a three year relationship and she dumped me because the intial spark wasn't there and that we had become more like friends. I thought it was good when you had a friendship within the relationship. And in terms of the spark, it's not going ot be the same. You have to work at it still. I was willing to...she wasn't...at least I don't think. She tells me she's confused... Am I right about the friendship within the long term relationship?
Kat Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 You can't have a long term relationship without it being based on friendship imho. Who do you want to talk to when you had a bad day? Best friend or 'sex buddy'? Who do you want to console you when someone close to you dies? Best friend of or 'sex buddy'? You just have to find a best friend who can ignite that spark, sounds like she wasn't good enough for you and didn't want the same things you did. I can't image how you feel but I can assure you that it is better to have top notch than settle for second best. Get out there and find your queen
Fayebelle Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 My BF is my best friend and I think that is the Most vital aspect of our relationship. It sounds like your ex did not have the maturity to commit to a serious long term relationship.
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