Sophie99 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 So its a common thing we hear that it takes half the length of the relationship to get over the break up. Its been half the length of the relationship now and.. I am over it. I think! A lot has happened since the break up, he was my first relationship, first kiss, everything and we were together for 2 years. Since, I've liked other guys, kissed other guys, been rejected by other guys too! And even though I really liked some of these guys it never turned into anything, but none the less I think they really helped me to get over it! Even though short holiday romances and a drunk kiss with a guy who didn't really like me (but I had liked for a fare few months!) are no where near as special and dear to me as my relationship with my ex was, and they were far from love, they showed me that my ex isn't the only guy in the world. Sometimes its hard to realise just how much my ex has changed, but it's true that the guy that I was so in love with just doesn't exist any more. Its sad but it's life too. I'm not sad about the break up any more, I'm not thinking about him every single day inescapably. I'm not on this forum every day desperately seeking answers and I haven't cried about it in months! I can wish the best for him hand on heart and I forgive him for everything totally. So keep going! It might take you longer or shorter time but time heals 1
mammasita Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Good for you! Its only been a couple weeks for me, and possibly due to my age/experience , I'm not crying at the drop of a dime LOL. Sad when I think about the goodness of what we had, but not a puddle of tears.
River Rain Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 That's great I don't shed tears for the ex anymore either. I know I'm over him now, and I can think of our time together fondly instead of only focusing on the anger and hurt. It's good, it feels so healthy
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