joel Posted July 31, 2004 Posted July 31, 2004 i am a asian guy mostly and always been into and attracted to white gals, but never dated one or even aisan gals. the thing is u hardly see am/wf couples, so should i got after a white gal? are they into asian guys or into me. i think i am a good looking guy-workout, 5 7 145lbs . i don;t think i ever had or ever had WF lookin at me. i guess growing up in N america -with the media-potrayal of WF has made em look mighty fine. But my question is where should i go find a WF who would be willing to date or be freinds with a AM. any of you WF in ur 20's ever date AM or any of u find em attractive.
honey2005 Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 I've never dated an Asian male, but if I was single, met a nice, single, Asian male who caught my interest, I would date him. It's people's personalities that make them attractive to me, and that is probably the case for many people out there. Just be yourself, and when you see a girl you're interested in, go up and say hi.
frogprinz29 Posted August 9, 2004 Posted August 9, 2004 I'm an asian male. Most of the girls/women I've had relationships with were not asian. Asian girls don't seem to look my way. I don't know what it is. Most of them have been WF actually. Regardless the ethnicity, it's what qualities you're looking for in that person and the relationship. Stay true and treat them right and hopefully you'll get the same in return.
koolaid68 Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 I am a white female dating an Asian man. sometimes he is sooo different then me I can tell we are from different places on this planet. My advice is that if you are going to you are going to have to understand that a lot of the things you do are going to be different try to figure out a lot about her culture and understand the way she was raised and how it is different than how you were raised. Go for it. I love being in a relationship that is different than everyone else.Hopefully she will do the same. I can't say your culture is the same as my boyfriends but if you don't say I love you in your family try to learn to say it. My family is a lot more affectionate It is hard that he isn't. anyway I think I am assuming a lot.
Author joel Posted August 11, 2004 Author Posted August 11, 2004 well true our family never is affectionate. how about complimeting a women on how she looks or what she done is that a white cultural thing or asian thing b/c i like to compliment to get gals on my good side. anways why are u with a AM and how did u guys meet and why are u with him. is it the money truelly u can tell me just wonderin. Originally posted by koolaid68 I am a white female dating an Asian man. sometimes he is sooo different then me I can tell we are from different places on this planet. My advice is that if you are going to you are going to have to understand that a lot of the things you do are going to be different try to figure out a lot about her culture and understand the way she was raised and how it is different than how you were raised. Go for it. I love being in a relationship that is different than everyone else.Hopefully she will do the same. I can't say your culture is the same as my boyfriends but if you don't say I love you in your family try to learn to say it. My family is a lot more affectionate It is hard that he isn't. anyway I think I am assuming a lot.
dyermaker Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 : Living in a place where the concentration of Asian people is greater than any other race, I'd have to tell you that it's definitely not 'the money'.
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