joel Posted July 31, 2004 Posted July 31, 2004 dating its all gotta be fair if not she out sista. i pay sometimes and sometimes u pay for me visa versa i ain't gonna pay all the time for u. sorry! gals enjoy sex too-and i have a nice bod and i am good looking. i seen gals checking me out lol when i was especially when i was wearing my muscle T. asking a gal to pay her half or swap is fair not asking much. i pay for like the first 7 dates its on me then after that swap if not i gotta weight my pros and cons. everything is $$$ nowadays .
honey2005 Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 You're right, girls paying half, swapping, whatever on dates is fair. But I'm kind of old fashioned, and if the guy didn't atleast offer to pay for me I would feel like he didn't really like me. I wouldn't take him up on his offer all the time, that just wouldn't be right, but it's kind of the thought that counts. I wouldn't like someone saying "You either pay your way or I'm going to have to re-evaluate our relationship", before I even get a chance to offer to pay. To me, guys offering the pay for the girl just seems like the gentleman's thing to do.
Fayebelle Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 My BF and I have a joint account so we both end up paying for Everything. In the beg of a relationship I like for the guy to offer but after a bit splitting bills is good practice for a more serious commitment. If you are gonna fight over who pays for dinner than the spit will hit the fan if you move in tog.
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