Mint Sauce Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 She cancelled our first date (should have happened yesterday evening) the morning before, because of a serious medical event the night before, from which she couldn't recover in time for the date (but she still went into work, as that was very urgent). She was very apologetic ("please don't be mad"), but didn't mention rescheduling the date during the short but well-natured texting that followed. Wasn't worried at first, as she was still feeling very bad and probably not in the mood to think about a new date. In the evening, I sent her an email, asking how she felt, and a suggestion for the 4th date (we had been planning 2 and 3 already before the 1st actually happened). She read it but didn't reply. She's been silent ever since. Can I call her? Send a sweet text? Or do I leave it for a bit. Perhaps she's in no mood to deal with someone who is in fact still a stranger she's never met. I'm afraid to come on to strong: I've been doing a lot of the pursuing so far, she responded eagerly on several occasions, but sometimes I think she was also a bit annoyed. All evidence points at her really looking forward to the date yesterday though: I got a very nice text in the morning, with a kiss,... Technically, it's her turn to respond, and to propose a rescheduling, but she made it clear that "if there's someone you don't want to let go on here (the OLD site), put some effort into it!" Any opinions?
Author Mint Sauce Posted October 25, 2012 Author Posted October 25, 2012 Should've called her to begin with to make sure she was alright, would've been the gentlemanly thing to do.. It's no ones turn- if you're interest call her, if you want to play games, keep waiting and wondering. I would not have appreciated her calling me if the situation were the reverse. Not a first phone call when you're feeling like hell... But I'll give her a call after working hours. 1
Balzac Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Your a smart, mature guy, nothing to lose in this. When you do make contact be sure to offer accommodation of potential limits she may have as a consequence of her medical event. Interesting situation though. I've not ever had this happen. Best of luck with her.
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