Hobbit Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Its been a few months now, and whilst LC was killing me at first it seems to be getting easier with each day. Im finally realising (even though you lot told me this already) that she's not the same person that I fell for initially. That person has died in my eyes. Im still gutted about the whole thing as I didnt want my children being brought up in a broken home like I did. But unlike my folks, me and my ex actually get along ok. I guess what Im getting at is that time does heal, I just hope that Ive learned some valuble lessons along the way. I'll never take another woman for granted ever again Now to find a bloody flat / house...... 1
january2011 Posted October 26, 2012 Posted October 26, 2012 Im finally realising (even though you lot told me this already) that she's not the same person that I fell for initially. That person has died in my eyes. Yes, this is a very important step in getting over a breakup - realising that the person in front of you is not someone with whom you want to reconcile. Good luck with the rest of your healing!
dana999 Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 good luck mate im in the same situation, it hurts like HELL but when someone changes theres nothing we can do about it, stay strong and set goals! ive got plans and goals in place to get me past her, im changing my lifestyle and hoping by the new year, i'll be ready to start a fresh, set some changes and set some goals for yourself. write them down and tick them off as you do them, stick to the plan, it helps trust me, cheers mate
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