aus44 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Lately i have been talking to this girl that i kind of like. About 5 years ago when i was in 8-9th grade we talked quite and but that was it. We started talking again about a month ago (i texted her). We have been getting along great and i really like her. Last weekend she came over to a party we were having and brought a friend. And a couple days ago i found out that her friend really likes me and all that stuff. She is constantly texting me which i would imagine is a pretty big problem. It doesnt seem like the girl i have been talking to really likes likes me but i guess i dont know for sure. We went to a movie with her tonight but we didnt hold hands or anything like that. We had fun and laughed a lot and it seemed like she had a good time. The biggest reason i think she only likes me as a friend is because she was the one that told me to text her because she had been asking about me all week and was all sad when i never messaged her back. I told her that i dont like her and dont want to lead her on or anything and she agreed but said to just be nice to her and stuff and that we can be "texting buddies" This is why im confused because, to me, i feel like she wouldnt really be trying to get us to talk a lot and stuff is she liked me because it would only cause problems with her and her friend. So i have been texting her friend back and stuff but trying to keep things at a bare minimum trying to give her hints im not interested. Im afraid to keep texting her because i will feel like i am leading her on or something and will only get more interested. Im wondering what you guys think i should do. Should i just wait and have me and the girl i like remain friends until i can try to get her to like me? Or should i tell her that i like her before her friend gets too interested in me? Thanks!
january2011 Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 I suspect that she already knows that you like her and thus she is steering you towards her friend because she doesn't like you enough to "keep" you for herself. You don't like her friend. So, yes, potentially, you are leading on the friend. So, stop texting the friend. As for the original girl, her actions suggest that she doesn't see you as more than a friend. Since you want more than that, I suggest that you move on from her and focus on your other friendships. Otherwise, you will end up waiting in the wings for an opportunity that might never materialise.
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