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Really confusing Love World nowadays. Planning to start up my own kid's boutique and tailoring shop in my housing area was a dream of mine but not for my bf. He thinks that it would not gain much profit. Although he is stable in financial but not in a relationship. Whenever we fight for a small matter for example I can't meet him because I'm sick all he gave me is 'that is the bloody excuses i heard from u. why can't u just be healthy like others?' this statement really feel like it was stabing me without stoping.He thinks that become a tailor is just a crappy job although I love doing it so much. Even I do my charity work to help save stray cats but he thinks that it worth of nothing. All he thinks in his stupid head is MONEY MONEY MONEY. Looking for other guy outside there makes me think are they really honest or just faking around.

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My initial feeling is that your values are not compatible. Your boyfriend, I suspect, is materialistc and focused on making as much money as possible. And he wants you to do the same.

 

However, you want to follow your dream of spending your life doing something that you enjoy.

 

His lack of concern and irritability regarding your health in addition to being unsupportive about you following your dreams suggests that this is not the relationship for you.

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