SayonaraItsuka Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 I currently go to a big state university. There are a lot of attractive girls. Thing is, I don't know how to approach them. I'm told that I am good looking and I do make good first impressions, but the thought of being rejected and that I don't know what to say restrains me from coming into contact with pretty girls. What should I do?
firetiger Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Join clubs, social events, coed sports teams, student council.things where the pretty girls partake in. take courses with more labs, tutorials, group projects/assignments... put yourself into situations where you have reason to talk to them. Then its easy to transition to more casual talk once you develop that rapport. Just talk and socialize with as many girls as you can. You may find one or two that will take interest in you. You'll sense it. You see they look at you or want to keep talking to you. Then make your move ask them out.. lunch..study together whatever and go from there. Let it become a numbers game. If you don't get fixated on 1 girl, then you won't have this feeling of rejection looming over you since you know you can just move on to the next.
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