Are women thinking the same thing?

[spiegel549]

Something that as always came into my head was "Is she thinking the same thing."

 

You drop her off after a first date, things went great, you shared laughs, she said she had fun...now your sitting at home really excited, thinking about her and waiting to call again to plan the second date..

 

I have always had a bad habit of over thinking every little detail afterwards... and wondered if she is sitting there in her room thinking about me, thinking about when I will call next.

 

What do YOU think?

[xdahliax]

If she likes you, yes. If not, no. I think too much. I've been known to actually make word clouds about my interactions with people just to clear my mind and allow me to sleep

[NoMoreJerks]

Yup, I think about him and the time we had together, but only if I like him -- if he turns me on intellectually and physically. If not, I won't think much about him ,and hope he wouldn't call (i might have given out my # to him just to be nice and because it's just awkward to say no in person)...

 

I do hope/expect him to call or text within the next 2 days at the latest. If texting, I'd expect him to text the next day. Calling within the next 2 days after the first meet-up. If he doesn't, I lose interest.

 

That said, I don't sit by the phone all day long and wait for his text or call.. I used to do that at first, in my first relationship, constantly check my phone to see if he called, would put off going places that would prevent me from picking up the phone or being able to talk (because the place is too loud, etc.). Stopped doing that. Sure, I do expect him to call and I check my phone every now and then to see if he sent me anything, but not obsessively, and not with too many emotions invested in the whole thing.

[january2011]

There have been coincidences where one of us is thinking of the other person and the other person initiates a Skype call at that very moment.

 

To answer your question more generally, I think it depends on the couple.