alexa137 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 so i found out all the reasons why my ex bf broke up with me and the more i think about it it really makes me mad! 1. how we meet, i lied, pretended to be by cousin(im shy and didnt want to make the first move) he never told me it bother him just thought he would be cool with it since he meet ME! well guess not 2. my past(men i dated many many years ago-stupid yes 3. my daughter and mother being close and he said affected our relationship 4. my financial status, i dont make much $ this 1 really pissed me off b/c i have been independent and on my own for over 20 yrs no one helps me pay my bills and provide for my daughter and I and for not working for 3 years I have alot in my house and nice things for being low income( how dare he say this when he was homeless for 2 weeks!) 5. that i snooped in his apt one night while he was taking a shower( iwas commenting on stuff but in a funny way, laughing about it and didnt take it seriously!) was kidding 6. too many texts one day when he didnt reply(he always texted me every morning and within 5 mins of a text and 6 hrs went by so i got scared and worried and yea i even ask his coworker who i saw if he saw him, yyea i guess i went a little too far but when youre used to someone texting you every 10-15 mins a day after 6 hrs i think anyone would worry! so he says i had more feelings than he did! and i thought the first 2 months he had more feelings than me! I know he didnt cheat or lie to me he just playing with my feelings and emotions he finally told me which really hrt my feelings was in a nutshell....youre everything i dont want in a relationship! wow after 4 months of spending everyday and going over 50 places together, nights out, spending the weekend at the beack, gifts, dinners etc..... just cant believe someone can be that lame to break up over text
january2011 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 This is why I think it's kinder to not go into detail about the reasons for a breakup when it's not mutual. The positive spin on this is that some of these items are springboards for growth. However, some of them border on ridiculous as "reasons." In my experience, breakups, even mutual ones, are unfair in some way. All you can do is take the lessons learned and try not to let it delay you too much as you get on with your life.
CopingGal Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 The man sounds like a bastard. Stay away from him and go off and live your life. Take care of you and sorry that happened to you. 1
Author alexa137 Posted October 25, 2012 Author Posted October 25, 2012 he was a good guy in some ways- I texted him today saying- you hurt my feelings with the words you said to me but what I think i miss the most is the company but out of sight out of mind so deleting your # for good! so he says " i was not trying to hurt your feelings..sorry if my feelings and works did that. I understand you and your numbers in your phone. i will do the same so there is no temptation. Once again sorry and just know that I never meant to hurt you, take care of yourself.
geegirl Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 he was a good guy in some ways- I texted him today saying- you hurt my feelings with the words you said to me but what I think i miss the most is the company but out of sight out of mind so deleting your # for good! so he says " i was not trying to hurt your feelings..sorry if my feelings and works did that. I understand you and your numbers in your phone. i will do the same so there is no temptation. Once again sorry and just know that I never meant to hurt you, take care of yourself. At least it helps you move on, as painful as it is.
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