Heartbroken1989 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Hey guys, Ok I really hate to bore you with the details but I'm having a tough day today and I feel there are just things that I need to get some perspective on. Basically my ex and I were together for 7 years met in school and moved to college together, after I graduated things changed as he was still in college and I was working. We began to drift apart but I thought that we were strong enough to get over it and he just wanted to enjoy the last year in college with friends etc. Anyway to cut a long story short I caught him with another girl in his flat four months ago....lets just say it was obvious they weren't just friends...my heart shattered..I really thought he was the one and kept thinking that he would see what he did was wrong. Anyway he told me that he didnt want to be seeing anyone..I moved to a new job in a different city and I eventually found out that he is seeing the other girl and that he loves her oh well I guess people can move on faster then others. Yet just two weeks ago I got a message apologising for what he had done and how things had ended and how he hoped things were well with me. I stayed strong and said I appreciated his apology and left it at that. I havent heard anything from him since. I guess I really have to accept things are over and move on with my life...I really am trying...i go out with friends etc but yet I cant stop thinking of him and wishing for what could have been. I know that he loves this girl now but do you guys think that he will ever see sense and come back? I wish I could rewind time and change things....thanks for reading x
JJ72 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 I'm sorry for what you're going through. 7 yrs is a long time to invest with someone, but you deserve better than this guy. Forget about him. Don't dwell on what could have been. Be strong and move on in your life. There's plenty of good guys out there. Stay busy with work, family, friends...go to the gym, etc. It'll get better as time goes by. Before you know it, you'll meet some new guy. Stay positive, be strong!!
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