guitarbirdb Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Out of curiosity, when a person “stonewalls” (putting up a wall and not responding in order to decrease conflict), does that mean that they are just not into you?
Carenth Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Need a bit more context, but if you are asking that you contacted someone and they never replied then yeah they are not into you.
carhill Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Some people don't care; some are conflict avoidant; some 'think' relationships and process conflict as transactional and generally unprofitable. IMO, you'll have to be more specific. As always, the best source of 'why?' is the person in question; if they're not communicating, that can be an answer too.
NoMoreJerks Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 My ex was like this -- he would shut down and refuse to listen to anything if he didn't get his own way . He would start a fight, then refuse to listen to my explanation/justification for my behaviour, etc. IMO, people who do this are generally manipulative and want to have the last word. And yeah, generally, it means they are selfish ****s . My ex was a narcissist.
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