spiegel549 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 (edited) Hey everyone! I would like to please get some insight on this girl I just met... I was at my little cousins baseball game a few days ago and all of a sudden this really pretty girl shows up. For a while she was sitting a few rows down from me on the bleachers and all of sudden she gets up and sits right next to me and introduces herself. She was friendly, interested in me, and ends up saying "you know you can come running with me sometime at the beach if you would like." Obviously asking me on a date...I was surprised..normally I have to do all the work haha. We went on our first date, I picked her up, and we went to the beach for some jogging/walking the shore. Talked about a lot of things, how she recently moved here, family, work etc. I tested her a lot...touched arm, the middle of her back as we would laugh and she would stay totally relaxed and comfortable. I even from time to time would space away from her and she would move closer to me and close the gap. After the beach we went for lunch, I am always a gentlemen..opened the door for her (which her face was in shock) she was really happy that I opened the door for her..she even said (wow your a gentlemen..) I guess she was not use to that. We have a great flirty lunch, I drive her home and say I had a great time lets get together soon, she agreed, gave her a kiss on the cheek and she gave me a big hug. Overall it seemed to be a great first date, I got all the right signs with her body language and her facial expressions when I did things (like opening the door) really showed interest. My question is from time to time she would bring it odd questions...almost to gauge my reaction maybe?? She would say "I am going to a bar thursday with this guy friend of mine." I would ALWAYS respond like "oh thats great have fun!" and then she would say "yeahh but hes just a friend, I think he likes me but I don't see him as more then a friend." Okay???? She even said she was in a bad last relationship and is afraid to get involved with someone because she doesn't want to get hurt. At the end of the day she threw a few more at me like that but I handled the response as cool and relaxed as possible. I am just curious is she testing me? See if I get jealous? See what kind of guy I am? I am going to call for a second date and I would LOVE to kiss her on the lips but don't want to scare her away...advice, opinions please! THANKS Edited October 24, 2012 by spiegel549
MrJKF Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 hey man This girl seems very trusting, and slightly impulsive so my advice would be to put in a little work with getting to know her. Call her talk to her so that its not just a physical relationship. It seems things started off at 100 mph and you guys are moving pretty quick. Have a few more conversations to break her flirting mold, she might stop the "testing" by doing that. but i warn you to be careful because it might just be a fling to her as well, there are many possibilities when it comes to women and a girl who initiates not only the first line but as well as the first date is a sign to keep a low-key guard up till further notice. hope this helped
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