Standing_Firm Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Been separted from STXW for twelve weeks now. Seen her only twice in that amount of time. Question is this...........have had advances from another knowing that I no loger wear my wedding ring. What should I do? There is a definate attraction between the two of us, but 'technically' I am still married. I would love nothing more than to blot out the memory of the XW and move on. Should I??
GuyInLimbo Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 You have a lot of business to take care of before getting involved with someone else. I don't think it's fair to the other party if you're still legally married. There's a lot of drama that could come along with the divorce. Can you give us a lot more of a back story?
paradigm shift Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Yep, I agree with GIL. Also, back story would be helpful. . Any new person right now is likely to be a rebound date or relationship. Give yourself a bit of time to rediscover who you are. For instance, I have rediscovered my love for all things kitschy...I know, I know, sad but true. I had forgotten how that kind of stuff makes me smile
riverratt Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 I agree, don't dive into the deep end yet. Or don't push it. Doesn't mean that a relationship is a bad thing for you. Just have a clear mind.
standtall Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Standing...do you have joint children together? If so, keep up appearances for their sake, and for court. If not, then I would recommend that you have some fun for yourself.
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