SayonaraItsuka Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 So, my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago with this apparently perfect boyfriend that she met only two months ago. She didn't cheat on me, but broke up with me for him. I blocked her last night from facebook and twitter, and she called me as she was drunk, but she claimed she had a sober mind. She asked why I blocked her, and I told her I needed to move on, but she's like I thought we were friends and blah blah blah and she thought I moved on. I tried to explain to her, but she kept going, saying that feels really bad about breaking up and she talks about it with her new boyfriend. Could this be a sign that she might want to come back to me in the future?
love does not exist Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 **** that hope ****, just move on. It isn't worth holding on too. If she liked you she wouldn't of left in the first place.
veggirl Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Why would you want her back when she dumped you for someone else? Don't answer her dramatic cries for attention. That's all she wants--attention. You are her back-up for comfort in case the new BF doesn't work out. Then she'll use you for attention/comfort til she meets her NEXT new BF. Don't get caught in this!
Chi townD Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 saying that feels really bad about breaking up and she talks about it with her new boyfriend. Could this be a sign that she might want to come back to me in the future? In one word, NO! The only thing that she said was that she felt bad about the break up. You blocked her from FB and Twitter. She KNOWS that she hurt you. She KNOWS she broke your heart and she's feeling guilty because the way she broke up with you is pretty damn shady. And she KNOWS this as well. She's looking for you to ease her guilt. I mean, talking to her new boyfriend about how she broke up with you? REALLY?!?!? That piece of information must have left you with a warm fuzzy feeling! Ignore her, you're taking the right steps. Next time when she calls, let it go to voicemail. Don't talk to her. She made it clear that she would rather have the other guy in her life than you, so you let her have him and move on. She's not worth your time.
Carenth Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Not a sign she will come back, she is just feeling bad about herself because she dumped you and doesn't want to be the "bad guy". She also might want to have her cake and eat it too, have her boyfriend and keep you around as a "friend". She is looking for a way to cure her guilt at your expense. You did the right thing cutting off ties with her. Forget about her and move on, find someone who actually loves and cares about you.
Stillalive1 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Ignor her,she wants her cake and eat it too,she dumped u for another guy (maybe cheat,and if she didn't phisically she was probably flirting with him at your back). The fact she is upset about it now it's her problem,not yours anymore.
robaday Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 This happened to me, have no idea who broke up with who to be honest (think it was mutual lol) and she blocked me on everything and told me to never contact her again. The other posters are right, it is her ego thats hurt and maybe she is acting bizarrely. BUT, ya know even as a dumper you still care about people, you still hope theyre doing well, you still know at least if theres some link there, that they arent dead to you. I still care about and respect all my ex's, even though things didnt work out, and perhaps thats why shes reacting so strangely........not saying shes acting right but perhaps its a boost for you knowing she still cares?
Balzac Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 It's funny that you blocked her but took the call. You need to take it all the way and delete her from your contacts. You dodged a bullet.
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