Ginaa Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 How do you break up with someone, without sounding harsh?
mvc Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 be honest, if you are breaking up for a reason tell them, dont sugar coat it or try and make it easy for them or whatever. if you care for the person they deserve to know what is actually going on and not try and piece things together because the dumper didnt want to look bad. 1
a.b Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 be honest, if you are breaking up for a reason tell them, dont sugar coat it or try and make it easy for them or whatever. if you care for the person they deserve to know what is actually going on and not try and piece things together because the dumper didnt want to look bad. This, and don't expect them to take it well. They will need time to digest it. There is no magical easy way to break up with anyone. Not that i've ever dumped anyone, but I'm yet to come across a way I've been dumped and found it easy. 1
todreaminblue Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 How do you break up with someone, without sounding harsh? breaking up is dumping someone......its harsh there is no avoidance here.....i have dumped and been dumped.......the dumpee is the one who decides whether or not a friendship should continue....with guys i have let go(including friends)..i take the choice which isnt fair but i have too.....i have no contact with guys i have let go they dont need my life interfering in theirs except for one and that is sympathy related ......dont expect a person you dump to like you very much or want to have contact with you i never do.......in saying this it rocks me to let someone go....my promise to myself is the next guy i let in will be in my life until he walks away if that is what needs to happen .....i will not walk away....dumping someone is always harsh and with me it affects me long term.......i absolutely hate it....because that harshness is unavoidable...honesty is unavoidable
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