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Ive got three girls numbers recently while I was out, but I am still struggling with a breakup. Half of me wants to just go out and have a good time, but the other half is still hurting.

 

Im not sure whether Im holding myself back from something good (i.e. sabotaging potential good thing), or whether I am being sensible. Its been a month and a half of no contact now.

 

Should I just go for it? Or continue to wait until I feel 100%

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Ive got three girls numbers recently while I was out, but I am still struggling with a breakup. Half of me wants to just go out and have a good time, but the other half is still hurting.

 

Im not sure whether Im holding myself back from something good (i.e. sabotaging potential good thing), or whether I am being sensible. Its been a month and a half of no contact now.

 

Should I just go for it? Or continue to wait until I feel 100%

 

Bro I was in your shoes literally 1 year ago, pardon my bluntness but you need it.

 

ITS OVER, you need to move on. Its tough, it sucks, you think about her everyday since you broke up. I DID THE SAME THING. Best thing to do is get out of the house and go out with your friends. Meet new girls, get phone numbers (like you already have) and CALL THEM. Doesn't need to be anything serious, just have some fun, fool around with some new girls, enjoy yourself.

 

The more you sit around (like I did) the more you are going to over think, and drive yourself crazy. Bro I know it SUCKS, but its over.

 

Look at it like this...anyone who breaks up with someone they cared about takes a little bit of time to get over them, stop thinking about them. I was DYING the fist month or two...but after I said F*CK this why am I moping around like this?? There are MILLIONS of other women out there that would want to get to know you, fool around w.e.

 

Bottom line: Get out of the house, get rid of everything and anything that reminds you of her...if she gave you your mattress you sleep on, throw it out and get a new one. Get out of the house and start rocking out!!!

 

After the 3rd month I didn't even think about her!

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