Nath45 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Im not going to go into the whole story about us because i would be here forever, but we split up about 4 months and after she cheated on me by kissing another guy then she dumped me a week later. We split up for 3 months and we recently started speaking again and about 2-3 weeks ago she told me we are boyfriend and girlfriend again so we are officialy together again. Things have gone so well so far our relationship is now more fun and exciting, i am no longer a pushover for her im more assertive now and we both love it, i think i was cheated on in the first place because i was a pushover and i was a " nice guy " but i have changed my ways a lot now and gone what i used to be like when we first got together. But theres one thing what is getting me down, it may sound stupid but thats why i came here. She blocked me on facebook about a month or two ago when we wasnt together and now nearly a month after we got back together she still has not unblocked me i suspect it is because she will expect that i will want to be in a relationship with her on it and i obviously do i want everyone to know we are together and this has normally been the case with her aswell. And she is quite a busy facebooker she updates her pictures, status's and everything every few days. She has over 1500 friends, and all her friends are on it when i say friends i mean guy friends who she speaks to sometimes. We have went out a lot lately and on blackberry messenger she always updates her PM to where she is going but she never includes my name on it like she used too. I just really really suspect she doesnt want people to know we are together, its kinda obvious when u look at it. Another thing, her best friend has a boyfriend and she has kissed a few guys behind his back but no one knows apart from me and my girlfriend. But also no one really knows they are together either, so this just adds more paranoia to it all and she has cheated on me before too. Im not really really paranoid but i am just a little bit, she has told me countless times she would never cheat on me again and that it was a huge mistake and she regrets it. I just want everyone to know we are together so guys stop flirting with her and chatting her up because she flirts back and doesnt even realise shes doing it, shes a natural flirty girl and the only way for people to know is by facebook as sad as it sounds but thats how i feel. But how am i ment to ask her about this? I havent had the balls to ask her to unblock me and send me a relationship request. Can anyone give me advice on what to say in this situation or if i should be paranoid? Thanks guys.
mammasita Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Social Networking is the devil. On the one hand I would say that she is something like an attention whore and is doing things she obviously doesn't want you to see. On the other hand, she could have simply forgotten to unblock you. I'm leaning towards the one hand based on your "relationship" thus far, her cheating, flirty personality and her obsession with staying connected when you two should be spending "quality" time together.
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