River Rain Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 (edited) 1. Silent treatment is the big #1 for me, this usually goes along with an unwillingness to resolve conflict (ime) 2. Smoking, gambling, drugs...any kind of addictive behaviour 3. Inhibitions in the sack, fearing intimacy 4. Oh, wife and significant other too, lol...although I would hope I was astute enough to figure this one out at the beginning 5. Complacency 6. Lack of conversation skills 7. Sedentary lifestyle and an unwillingness to get up off the couch 8. Unhealthy diet and unhealthy lifestyle in general I suppose 9. Goes without saying? Criminal behaviour and deviance Edited October 24, 2012 by River Rain 1
tori0001 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I don't really have any. I think if you like someone, anything can be worked out. 1
espec10001 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Sounds like a list of qualities employers don't want in a job applicant. What am I getting paid again for this gig?
xdahliax Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 These would more appropriately be titled wish lists of unrealistic expectations. The likelihood of finding someone who fits all of these requirements is slim. Next thing you know the person can't eat Kraft cheese cold they must melt it before eating or else it's over. Eating Kraft cheese period is a deal breaker. Kidding.
skydiveaddict Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 refuses to do what i say is not totally hot looking is ugly is one of those girls who holds the stop signs on road construction projects does construction work of any kind is a truck driver is anything other than catholic or Jewish tries to tell me what to do tries to 'dress" me will not use dental floss wears conservative, ugly underwear will not get breast implants if i tell her she needs them buys me an electric shaver for christmas buys me any kind appliance for christmas chews tabacco trys to take me shopping tells me i watch too much football tells me she doesn't want me skydiving anymore if she belches if she complains when i belch tries to make me watch movies like "sleepless in seattle" tries to make me watch any kind of movie tries to send me to the store to rent a movie tries to send me to the store for anything tries to make me do anything, actually will not go to the store for me when i need some thing
Carenth Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 (edited) My list off the top of my head: 1) Smoking 2) Drugs 3) Excessive drinking 4) Gambling 5) Devout <insert religion here> 6) Poor communication skills 7) Abusive (emotionally and/or physically) 8) Unhealthy lifestyle 9) No ambition or passion in life 10) History of cheating/dishonesty Edited October 25, 2012 by Carenth
River Rain Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 1) I am not Muslim 2) You're hilarious I'm sometimes offended by the outrageous negativity, but this one actually amuses me very much, not you xdahliax, the boston guy. Dude, you're "outed" as either someone who is trying way too hard (and failing) to take out his/her anger on other members...or you're just kind of pathetic to the point where people are laughing at you. 2
tori0001 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 This is a person who's been very hurt and needs some compassion and understanding.
Feelin Frisky Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 -Can't be a republican. -Is fundamentally very smart but fails to apply any ethics to apply that intellect into engaging conversation. (This is very prevalent--women who are clever and impressive until anything historical or even anything in movies, or who actors are or you name it are metions--then they've never heard of it. These become your republican voters who piss away their own rights without even relizing it because they live in the moment and will vote because the candidate's image appeals to them. Substance and connecting the dots of a records means nothing to them. -I won't have a smoker or someone with chronic bad breath who just won't work on it. Tattoos--disgusting, self-inflicted blemishes bought from someone who does that for a living where the receiver of the tatoo then convices themselves that wearing this constitutes "body art". If you do it to yourself then it's body art. Other than that it's marring grafitti you paid some biker or ex-convict to put on you. Religiosity. God is a mental illness wrapped up as the most divisive personnae ever invented. The rules of nature do not suspend to accomdate intervening by a god to honor requests in the forms of prayers or there would be no civilization at all--everyone would either feel they haven't prayed hard enough, their day hasn't come yet and will, or are on some kind of super-natural shi+ list where it's no use doing anything. Thank "god" peop'e don't "really" believe in god in the way they used to.
Woggle Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Another one is somebody who is turned on by drama and dysfunction.
xdahliax Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 -Can't be a republican. -Is fundamentally very smart but fails to apply any ethics to apply that intellect into engaging conversation. (This is very prevalent--women who are clever and impressive until anything historical or even anything in movies, or who actors are or you name it are metions--then they've never heard of it. These become your republican voters who piss away their own rights without even relizing it because they live in the moment and will vote because the candidate's image appeals to them. Substance and connecting the dots of a records means nothing to them. -I won't have a smoker or someone with chronic bad breath who just won't work on it. Tattoos--disgusting, self-inflicted blemishes bought from someone who does that for a living where the receiver of the tatoo then convices themselves that wearing this constitutes "body art". If you do it to yourself then it's body art. Other than that it's marring grafitti you paid some biker or ex-convict to put on you. Religiosity. God is a mental illness wrapped up as the most divisive personnae ever invented. The rules of nature do not suspend to accomdate intervening by a god to honor requests in the forms of prayers or there would be no civilization at all--everyone would either feel they haven't prayed hard enough, their day hasn't come yet and will, or are on some kind of super-natural shi+ list where it's no use doing anything. Thank "god" peop'e don't "really" believe in god in the way they used to. Tell us how you really feel.
Avulare Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 My dealbreakers: He... 1. Smokes cigarettes or chews tobacco (really any tobacco addiction, it's disgusting) 2. Is significantly overweight or obese. 3. Has bad skin, gross teeth that could have been prevented by washing or brushing more. 4. Doesn't like animals or the outdoors. 5. Lacks intellectual pursuits. 6. Doesn't have the faintest idea what he wants to with his life. 7. Has an unhealthy lifestyle (eats **** food, smokes weed all day, lazy, etc.) 8. Doesn't like going traveling new places for the simple sake of exploration. 9. Is shorter than me. 10. Is obsessed with sports. 11. Is misogynistic. 12. Is religious.
tori0001 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Feeling Frisky, you really judge people pretty harshly.
Avulare Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 I feel that voting for state and local issues is important, that it actually makes a difference. But yeah, the presidential election is a total joke. I'll still vote but I'm writing in someone else's name. 1
nyyankeegal33 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 most of my deal breakers: Overweight(by like 20+ lbs) Allergies to dogs/cats not adventurous won't try new things Smoker Heavy drinker Party Animal Can't keep a conversation going Too Sensitive Hates sports Hates Gaming Wants/Has kids bad hygine Too serious all the time doesn't get my sense of humor/has a sense of humor And African Americans...That's my big one.
SmileFace Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 most of my deal breakers: Overweight(by like 20+ lbs) Allergies to dogs/cats not adventurous won't try new things Smoker Heavy drinker Party Animal Can't keep a conversation going Too Sensitive Hates sports Hates Gaming Wants/Has kids bad hygine Too serious all the time doesn't get my sense of humor/has a sense of humor And African Americans...That's my big one. So, not black - just African American?
nyyankeegal33 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 So, not black - just African American? well...Black people living in the Americas = African Americans..soo yeah African Americans
GirlontheLam Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 1. being unambitious 2. smoker (blech!) 3. drinks to get drunk (I am a limited social drinker) 4. being overly sensitive to my sarcasm 5. not intellectually curious 6. doesn't like my cooking
GirlontheLam Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 And African Americans...That's my big one. Wow. I haven't decided if that is just ignorant or racist as well.
SmileFace Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 well...Black people living in the Americas = African Americans..soo yeah African Americans Well, not exactly but I don't care to even explain. To each their own.
xdahliax Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Wow. I haven't decided if that is just ignorant or racist as well. That's racist. Especially since the person pointed out it was their "big one"
ThaWholigan Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 Wow. I haven't decided if that is just ignorant or racist as well. She may just not be at all attracted to black guys - although the emphasis on "that's my big one" is quite telling. That's racist. Especially since the person pointed out it was their "big one" She doesn't like our "big one"? Makes sense..... 2
Nik1 Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 After dating my ex, I now only abide by these four: 1. Fat (25+ lbs overweight. I dated a fat chick and I think I treated her bad because I didn't think she was much of a prize, no matter how much I enjoyed her company. I'm insecure, whatever.) 2. Adamantly against smoking 3. Hates cats (I'm cool with dogs, but I've always been more of a cat person, I really miss my cats I lost in the break up.) 4. Black (I'm sorry, I just don't find most black women attractive at all. Granted, there are definitely exceptions (Ashley Banks), but I generally don't like them doo-doo mamas.)
SmileFace Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 I actually sort of agree with that. Generally speaking African American women have bad attitudes, again generally speaking. Immediately comes to mind is someone talking out their neck-ohnoudiint. I stared at this for like 5 minutes like "What is he talking about?" Eh, generally people stereotype so I guess general speaking is ok. I don't care one way or the other. I don't consider myself African American - since I am first generation and have no reason to forget my background. However sadly enough in America all blacks usually get thrown in one group. Which I have no problem identifiying with them but I have to remember who I am. Time to fall into the Asian male, Indian male, Black female group = HA!
GirlontheLam Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 I actually sort of agree with that. Generally speaking African American women have bad attitudes, again generally speaking. Immediately comes to mind is someone talking out their neck-ohnoudiint. I actually don't know any black women like that...besides the people on TV. I stared at this for like 5 minutes like "What is he talking about?" Eh, generally people stereotype so I guess general speaking is ok. I don't care one way or the other. I don't consider myself African American - since I am first generation and have no reason to forget my background. However sadly enough in America all blacks usually get thrown in one group. Which I have no problem identifiying with them but I have to remember who I am. Time to fall into the Asian male, Indian male, Black female group = HA! Oh great. Stereotyping is bad, but it doesn't matter because I don't really count...... feel free to talk trash about those "other" black women I don't identify with. I find that people decide to stereotype me as Nigerian, since I don't fit their stereotype of African-American women. Instead of just deciding we are individuals that come in many types, shades and personalities.
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