datingtard Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Hello to all the good guys and girls here. I'm looking for some advice. So I have been to this supermarket quite a number of times and I noticed this sweet girl but did not make any moves. So, I decided to go there again to meet her but unfortunately she was relocated to another branch for about a week. (I asked another saleswoman who works there too, but did not make any references whatsoever about me being interested.) So, I went again today and she was there at the confectionery. I walked over and waited while she handled the other customers' orders. When she was done, she approached me and gave me a very sweet smile. So i smiled back and simply ordered anything that was there. She took her time, and asked me whether it was the amount I wanted. She was smiling at me all the time. Then I asked her if she was still studying or working 24/7. She couldn't get what I was saying so she walked towards me away from her counter to beg my pardon. And then she said to me in a friendly way that's she's full time. She handed me my stuffs and that's it. While I paid at the cashier, we made eye contact briefly and I went out. She is a Russian. And I'm Oriental. I learned the language for 5 years after coming to Russia and its somewhat mediocre and not fluent. So, I am going there again to introduce my name, flirt a little, ask her out. The thing is should i give my number or even ask for hers. What things I can I even say when i approach her? Thanks.
Author datingtard Posted November 2, 2012 Author Posted November 2, 2012 give her your number and or ask her if she wants to grab something to drink or eat when she gets off of work. it has worked for me. Ok this is a followup of what I did. I went to the shop again and she noticed me and a smile came on her face except that she wasn't smiling at me but minding her business. So i hanged around the shop for a while and eavesdropped on her. She whispered to her female colleague there was something she wanted to tell her not at the moment but later on (something bout me prolly). When the opportunity came. So I approached her and asked her if spoke English? She said no..and then I introduced myself and told her my name...and she said: "Hhhmmmmm..." Then I asked her name.. She kinda sort of mumbled something about me wanting to know her name. I couldn't make it out what she was saying but she wasn't that eager to maybe tell me( at least i felt that way..) and she walked away and bent over behind the counter as if she was trying to hide LOL.. So, I left my things at the counter, disappeared for a while and wrote a note saying that I liked her smile and put my number on it. And asked the cashier to pass it to her. I think that it is funny when someone introduces ones name, and the other person replies:"HMmmmmmm" and nothing else. I even had to ask her name LOL!
dasein Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 Move on, she isn't interested. This is the point where movies depart from real life. In a movie, you are 8 more persistent visits from a date, true love and living happily ever after. In real life you are 2-3 visits from being kicked out of the store and asked not to return. Don't get down though, you are doing great, exactly what you should be doing. Keep it up and you will become successful at approaching women out and about. Suggest never giving your number and always asking for theirs though. Good luck. 1
truth_seeker Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 From what you describe she sounds shy and not interested. Your best bet is to return every once in awhile and just say hi if she serves you or make sure she sees you and ignore her. Play it like it doesn't bother you. It's a reverse psychology tactic: give a girl too much attention she runs away; ignore her and she will want your affection. I'm not saying this will work, but it might help your cause. 1
Author datingtard Posted November 2, 2012 Author Posted November 2, 2012 From what you describe she sounds shy and not interested. Your best bet is to return every once in awhile and just say hi if she serves you or make sure she sees you and ignore her. Play it like it doesn't bother you. It's a reverse psychology tactic: give a girl too much attention she runs away; ignore her and she will want your affection. I'm not saying this will work, but it might help your cause. I think I will try your advice. I would like to talk to her more but she seems like she's trying to keep herself busy and yet being friendly at the same time. Maybe she is.. but honestly I would rather she told me that she has a relationship/not interested, has a tight schedule or any excuse. I just wished she said something/anything
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