tizmos Posted July 31, 2004 Posted July 31, 2004 It's been a week or so since my girlfriend broke up with me. We lived together for about two years, went out for three. She said we had turned into friends and that the initial spark between was gone. I've had to deal with seeing her once and a while this past week because i had to go into the old apartment and move out. She was my best friend out here and I've lost that too. Somedays i think i can call her, that i'll be ok. Others, i just wake up in utter dispair, not knowing what to do. Will I ever be able to talk to her again? I had called her sister the other day to see when they were leaving for a concert. I wanted to be sure she wasn't in the apartment when i moved the rest of my stuff. My ex called the next day and said "YOu don't have to call my sister...you can call me." I said i didn't want to. She told me of stuff I had to do so we wouldn't get charged for damage in the apartment. I asked her if this was hard for her and she said "Of course. I still love you and miss you. I'm just confused right now." Then she mentions that she hopes someday we can be friends, but that it's completely up to me. That just made it sound final and I can't deal with that right now. I don't want to "just be friends" with her. I was dumped for being a perfect boyfriend and friend....I don't think there was anything else I could have done.
daydreaming Posted July 31, 2004 Posted July 31, 2004 But as she said, she is "just confused" right now... I know that phase, it comes within the best relationships. Sometimes you just feel like you want to get out, cause you think you're missing something. She says she loves you and she misses you, too, so I guess there is still hope for you. You should just leave her alone for a while so she can sort out her feelings. I'm sure it'll all work out for the best. Good luck!
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