irc333 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I had been out with this one woman a couple of times, and we were at the movies, and at the end of it..she looks at me, smiles, and says, "Well, I gotta go take a Wiizzz!" And I thought, "Well, that's lady like to make such an announcement" But I said, "TMI, and countered with, I gotta take a dump!" But this was the first time a woman I've been out with, that would use such terminology other than, "May I be excused" or "I need to use the restroom". etc Not that it wasn't a deal breaker or anything, but I often wonder women do this purposely if they decide to FZ. I was hoping she wouldn't break wind in the middle of the theater. LOL
mammasita Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I wait until further into a relationship to say things like that.
january2011 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 If I feel comfortable and relaxed, then I'm less guarded with my language. Either she's an oversharer and not for you. Or she's quite straightforward and doesn't feel she has to pretend that because she's a woman she never burps, farts, sweats, pees or poops. Yes, there are contexts that require good social etiquette, but I don't think the term, "wiizzz" is as "nasty" as saying "dump." Therefore, in my opinion, your response was rude and unnecessary. If she laughed it off and didn't give you a funny look or frown in response to your reply, you were lucky. If you want a "lady" then perhaps this woman is not for you. But more evidence is required, in my opinion, before you penalise her for one comment that you didn't like. Especially if the rest of the date went well. As an aside, I would not say "may I be excused" on a date - I'm not 12 and sitting at a dinner table with my parents. 1
rocketman122 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I had been out with this one woman a couple of times, and we were at the movies, and at the end of it..she looks at me, smiles, and says, "Well, I gotta go take a Wiizzz!" And I thought, "Well, that's lady like to make such an announcement" But I said, "TMI, and countered with, I gotta take a dump!" But this was the first time a woman I've been out with, that would use such terminology other than, "May I be excused" or "I need to use the restroom". etc Not that it wasn't a deal breaker or anything, but I often wonder women do this purposely if they decide to FZ. I was hoping she wouldn't break wind in the middle of the theater. LOL eh, that stuff doesnt bother me in the least. I would laugh and say "I like that". to me it would seem she might feel comfortable to say stuff like that around me and thats good. unless she a woman with no tact.
todreaminblue Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I had been out with this one woman a couple of times, and we were at the movies, and at the end of it..she looks at me, smiles, and says, "Well, I gotta go take a Wiizzz!" And I thought, "Well, that's lady like to make such an announcement" But I said, "TMI, and countered with, I gotta take a dump!" But this was the first time a woman I've been out with, that would use such terminology other than, "May I be excused" or "I need to use the restroom". etc Not that it wasn't a deal breaker or anything, but I often wonder women do this purposely if they decide to FZ. I was hoping she wouldn't break wind in the middle of the theater. LOL i would not say that to a guy....i still say i have to go to the ladies or just i have to go ill be back.....seems a bit picky to me though to be picking out singular words.......i say cringe worthy things like chicken hypnotising and random comments.....i try not to be oversharing on toilet etiquette but still picky picky ...irc33 wizz in word association i get fizz....wizz fizz.... there does that clean it up....with dump i get truck......try word association next time...lol.....deb
Author irc333 Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 i would not say that to a guy....i still say i have to go to the ladies or just i have to go ill be back.....seems a bit picky to me though to be picking out singular words.......i say cringe worthy things like chicken hypnotising and random comments.....i try not to be oversharing on toilet etiquette but still picky picky ...irc33 wizz in word association i get fizz....wizz fizz.... there does that clean it up....with dump i get truck......try word association next time...lol.....deb I'm not picky at all, like I said it wasn't a deal breaker...she broke it off with me. I was trying to get a 3rd date with her, and she goes, "Sorry, I just don't see this turning into anything romantic, but we can still be friends". So, I was cool with that, but I was cool that she did say it that way, meant she was comfortable.
xdahliax Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I would be turned off by that. It lets me know that the person does not have the same boundaries as I do. I'd be afraid to bring this person into my social circles. I wouldn't have a problem if I knew the person very well, though.
grkBoy Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 If I feel comfortable and relaxed, then I'm less guarded with my language. I agree. It might say she feels comfortable with you. In any case, it's not a deal breaker, not unless she's crude like Sandra Bullock in "Miss Congeniality"...before the makeover.
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