Sasu Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 (edited) Hello,this would be my second post here and i'd like to thank members ,their articles here for educating me and with problems ppl generally deal with . I posted my story before in first post so keeping it short, I am in long distance relationship with a separated married girl for over 2 years now,we both became committed and she even planned to marry me in real someday and was pretty much serious for me,so was i,but i have been cheated once by her online and be with her when she was dating other guys again online,i begged ,i pleaded ( everything i shouldn't have) as she claimed to love me only and sees her future with me ,other thing is for just fun. After awhile i couldn't take it anymore so went in no contact mode with her to heal myself and get self dependent for my happiness,but broke down after 2 weeks and return to her only to hear her cry about her real life problems and for hurting me multiple times. Situation now is ,she said she loves me only but doesn't want to hurt me anymore like she have done always ,saying she doesn't want to be with anyone and is not meant for a relationship,she said give things some time and saying she knows i can't leave her ever coz she have that thing in her , I shrugged it off saying i just dun give up on a person that's all to it,she said not to give up on her then. So i try to be like friends in hopes she'll return back to me but its 2 weeks now and its just like friends,but i doesn't feel its progressing any further . 2 days back i said i have feelings for her and i told her that i can't be like friends coz that hurts me and i want to tc of myself this time and have no hard feelings for her or any regret to our relationship,I gave her chance even after everything happened so far to be together,she said she doesn't have time for my bs and is happy to be single and asked not to waste her and mine time & deleted me from her online account -sigh- ,basically GIGS syndrome i read about here , So i left friendship with her 2 days back and is not contacting her,is this the right move from my part as im serious for her & want her back ,shes troubled in her real life and thinking messy stuff about herself ,the only person she could talk about her problems was me so i feel she may miss me but as well start to hate me now,which is last thing i want. Edited October 24, 2012 by Sasu
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