humanis Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 ok friday I went on date with Girl after everything went good we ate icecream and went swing dancing had a great time sunday I text and say hey I had a great time so I am mandating that we hang out again sometime this week she responds positively saying ok and we text back and forth a little playing and joking around. Monday I ask her to go eat the lunch with me, seems to go ok. Today I text asking if she wants to hang out friday, says she's hanging out with friends I ask if she wants to grab lunch again says she is going to be busy rest of the week. I feel like I done goofed. How can I recover? Can I recover? That definently sounded like a shut down. Also is that clingy? If so how can I be less clingy?
blackymcblackerson Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 It's a big strange that she's avoiding you, because I'm sure most individuals would think it should be the other way around. However, when you were talking to her, what did you think she was looking for? A boyfriend, or just another a friend? There are 6 Functions of Dating: 1. Recreation 2. Companionship 3. Intimacy & Sex 4. Mate Selection 5. Socialization 6. Status Achievement Not every interaction with her has to be just with you guys. Try hitting her up again tomorrow and see if she wants to hang out with a group of friends and see how she interacts with you amongst friends. Maybe through some more interactions and using what you already know about her, you can see which category she fits in, and whether you should continue in pursuing a relationship, which is what I presume you're going after. Best of luck to you, bro.
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