eggy Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Hey there, So I've been working with this girl for about a year now. We started working for the same company at the same time and we were in the same training class. When I first saw her I was like "DAYAMM"...but never thought I would ever date her. She is very pretty and makes all the guys at work drool every time she walk pass them. Its actually amusing just seeing the look on their faces. For the first 8 months we barley spoke but we always acknowledged each other when we bump into one another. Then one day I asked her to be on my team for an after work league and she agreed. So since then we been hanging outside of work and gotten comfortable with each other. She turned out to be a pretty fun girl to hang out with. Here are the signs: Always playing with her hair when I talk to her, touchy feely, HELD MY HAND a few times...but she could have been buzzing and she told me that everybody at work thinks we're dating. Here are the mix signals: Rarely reply to my texts or emails (work) Right now I'm fine with just being friends, I don't really want to ask her because we work together and on the same team for our league. I don't really want any awkwardness between us. However the curious side of me wants to know what she is feeling. I may just observe a few more weeks.
blackymcblackerson Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 From the signals you explained, it seems like she could be interested, or at the very least, feels comfortable around you. The fact she touches you shows your relationship/friendship is in a good spot. Check to see how she gives you eye contact. Does she gaze at you? Gazing indicates interest and can demonstrate emotions. Also, if you’re interested in her, go for it! I know it can be awkward with her being at your work place, but use Social Exchange Theory, which is weighing out the cost and benefits of a relationship, and see if a relationship with her would work out for you. Hope you find what you’re looking for!
Jamesblame Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 When mix signals are in doubt. Ask or make a move. Better to either a.) Get rejected and move on sooner or b.) get a kiss and move on to the bedroom sooner.
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