OompaLoompa Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 So i wanted a fwb (never had one). I found someone online and we exchanged a few emails. I liked him. He sent me a naked pic of himself. Oh God. I know him.... I haven't responded yet (so he doesn't know it's me on the other side, yet) We are not friends or anything like that. Just working for the same company, but on different floors, different department (seen him at the common areas several times, so I recognize him, and he does recognize me too) So my questions are: 1. from your experience, would it be a bad idea to still pursue this thing? (too much risk for ruining my reputation, especially given the same company situation)? 2. i think he's hot so would there be any other way to somehow form a relationship here? Thanks!!
SmileFace Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 No to number 2 so that is no to one. Don't **** where you eat - especially if it isn't a classy ****. 1
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 okay... Then should i at least write him back? Telling him that i can't do this because I know him?
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 I totally have that urge! but i shouldn't... and he's so hot... i wanna do him.... #sigh#
SmileFace Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 okay... Then should i at least write him back? Telling him that i can't do this because I know him? No, just have fun with this and send him a picture of the hallway leading to your office in the building you are working in.lol jk I say if you are interested in him, even if you were looking for a FWB, approach him in person - since you know he is single. If you just want a FWB, which it doesn't seem like you do - then continue with the ad. However personally I wouldn't go ahead with it and for the sake of your job, don't! Write him from the anon account and tell him you are no longer interested and delete that email account. Then if anything approach him in person.
SmileFace Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I totally have that urge! but i shouldn't... and he's so hot... i wanna do him.... #sigh# If you want to and don't think that it will be a problem with your work environment I say go ahead but since you are already wanting more from him - I don't think it is a good idea. I wouldn't choose to have a sexual relationship with someone I work with or near.
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 I thought about it but then, of all these times, he never approached me first, even if he knew I existed.. So doesn't that mean, by apprearance, I am not attractive to him? (i meant that given that he never showed any tiny bit of interest so far, I'm strongly guessing that I am not his type?)
SmileFace Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Most people will not show interest with someone they work with so that wouldn't be a good judge. Truthfully speaking... Do you think a FWB situation is your only chance with this guy?
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 Hmm. Idk. I haven't tried to seduce him so don't know yet ;p but now that I think about it, even if I pursue this, HE might not want to do it knowing its me ... ?
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 But yeah, well I never knew he was THIS hot. All his hot body has been perfectly hidden underneath that suit. I'm never gonna see him the same way now... He's probably going to turn me on everytime I see him now.... lol
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