ReadMyThread Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I think our ex's will miss us eventually. Why? Well it's been 2 months since my ex has dumped me for another guy and I find myself looking back AT ALL my relationships I have been in and I miss my ex ex. The girl I dated BEFORE my current ex. I've had been in 4 relationships total. 2 of my ex's before my current ex I KNOW wouldn't work out so I don't miss them like I miss my ex ex. The 2 I know that wouldn't work was because one had a kid! (together for 1 month) lol. And the other one was just boring lol. (Together for 1 month). But my ex ex I dated for 3 months and now I am looking back and remembering things we did and everything. Like today, a song came on the radio that use to be "Our Song" and it brought back memories. I miss her. I dumped her because she didn't trust me but I never gave her a chance to gain the trust and I kind of regret it now with what happened with my current ex now lol. I keep thinking of my ex ex to get my mind of my current ex and it's working lol. I should have gave her a chance. So with me missing her I looked her up and actually texted her but she has a boyfriend now lol. I remember that when I dumped her she tried to ask for a second chance 2 months later and I told her I have moved on and that she should too lol. Well look at me now, wanting a second chance with her lol. Shame. My Point. Okay, your ex dumped you. It's over. But one day in the future they WILL get dumped and if they are like me, they WILL think you and most likely will miss you! Don't you think? I think they will eventually think of us. When they are lonely and sad like they made us. THAT'S when they will reach out to us and want something from us whether it's a second chance being together or just emotional support. What do you guys think? Now that you have been dumped, do you find yourself looking back on your other exes and begin missing them? I do. lol. Most likely because I'm now all alone but they will be too one day.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 All depends.. only I miss was the one I had no reason for leaving except I have to move on and work for a living and she couldn't join : / sidenote on your 3 month relationship.. I've gone over 3 months with out a proper shower before. seriously. lol. That's too long man.
LostOne1 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I don't know.. I miss my ex less and less now after realizing she isn't worth it. I mean why should I care or miss someone that never missed me at all.....
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 I don't know.. I miss my ex less and less now after realizing she isn't worth it. I mean why should I care or miss someone that never missed me at all..... She WILL miss you lol. Unless if you cheated on her or beat her or did something mean lol. One day she will be dumped and be all alone and then will look back on if dumping you was actually good or not. But like you said, she isn't worth it so who cares? lol. I want my ex to miss me someday though :/. Just so she can feel everything I'm feeling now.
witmadskilllz Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 OP.. I can sort of understand what you're trying to say here but just my 2cents input, ahem. My ex dumped me and started a new relationship afterwards, and 2 years later she texted me. Even if she missed me so dearly, am I just going to sit around waiting until that one day for her to come back? I'd rather enjoy my life single now, thanks
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 All of your ex's have one thing in common, THEY ARE STILL YOUR EX'S!!! No matter how much they missed you/you missed them, you never got back together forever. This is all just false hope for some people, I hope people don't think too much into this. 1
mishy Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 you dont want somebody coming back to you just because 3 years later or whatever they get dumped. You dont want to be an afterthought
dreamstate83 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 In my experience, they always come back around. The funny trick is that they have a radar that detects when you are completely moved on. As soon as that happens, I get the crying on the phone phone calls about how they made a big mistake. It's a good ego boost, but nothing more. I'll raise a glass to this one 2
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 In my experience, they always come back around. The funny trick is that they have a radar that detects when you are completely moved on. As soon as that happens, I get the crying on the phone phone calls about how they made a big mistake. It's a good ego boost, but nothing more. I'll raise a glass to this one They always come back! Lol. They do have this radar. That sh** goes off as soon as your over them lol. I could use a ego boost right about now lolo
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 you dont want somebody coming back to you just because 3 years later or whatever they get dumped. You dont want to be an afterthought You are DEFINETELY right man. Nobody would want that. Just figured I share how now I'm thinking about my ex's since I was dumped lol. Usually everyone does.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 OP.. I can sort of understand what you're trying to say here but just my 2cents input, ahem. My ex dumped me and started a new relationship afterwards, and 2 years later she texted me. Even if she missed me so dearly, am I just going to sit around waiting until that one day for her to come back? I'd rather enjoy my life single now, thanks See. They always come back. Lol. I bet she got dumped and was thinking of you. Yeah nobody should be waiting for their ex that's for sure. They are going to get f***** by someone else anyone anyway do nobody was them back after that.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 All of your ex's have one thing in common, THEY ARE STILL YOUR EX'S!!! No matter how much they missed you/you missed them, you never got back together forever. This is all just false hope for some people, I hope people don't think too much into this. My sister cheated on my brother in law and they got back together after 6 months. They have even together for 7 years now and they have been married for 3 years. They have 2 kids planning to make another. Hey, it can happen man lol. Just very rare. Lol. False hope everywhere! Lol.
gonefishin Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I think it depends on how it all ended the breakup and after thoughts. It's safe to say we are missed to some degree as you can't spend that much time with someone and all of a sudden there gone and not think of them. This doesn't mean much though under them simply they miss us .. Not that they want us back.. But good times and memories. Do hit home when your down and vulnerable too..
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 My sister cheated on my brother in law and they got back together after 6 months. They have even together for 7 years now and they have been married for 3 years. They have 2 kids planning to make another. Hey, it can happen man lol. Just very rare. Lol. False hope everywhere! Lol. I understand that this happens, people get back together. Ths is a breakup forum, the chances of what happened to your sister happening to us is very very slim. All I'm saying is that the people reading this forum shouldn't get their hopes up. 99%+ chance that when they miss you/when they come back either you or your ex will have changed to a point where the relationship is unsalvageable. I'd hate to have someone read this thread and hold on to hope and stop/regress any progress. I look at my past and 100% of my ex's are still ex's. There is a high probability that my latest ex will end up the same way. Do I wish it were different? Yes, but history would tell me otherwise. 1
Mr Reptile Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 My sisters daughter (she's 19) was together with a guy for a couple of months, then with another guy for an even longer RS (like a year or something) and now she is back again with the first guy I mentioned. It happens, stop telling people "it rarely/never happens" because that's even worse than giving false hopes. I don't think the reason to the BU is having a big difference unless it was something big like cheating or alcoholism with abusive behavior (maybe even beating). Will some small mistakes make them NEVER want us back after ALL THE GOOD things we did? Stop fooling yourself, they will miss you one day if you treated them right, nobody forgets a good partner nomatter how bad you were the last few weeks/months of the RS. But don't stop moving on with your life because of this. 2
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 My sisters daughter (she's 19) was together with a guy for a couple of months, then with another guy for an even longer RS (like a year or something) and now she is back again with the first guy I mentioned. It happens, stop telling people "it rarely/never happens" because that's even worse than giving false hopes. I don't think the reason to the BU is having a big difference unless it was something big like cheating or alcoholism with abusive behavior (maybe even beating). Will some small mistakes make them NEVER want us back after ALL THE GOOD things we did? Stop fooling yourself, they will miss you one day if you treated them right, nobody forgets a good partner nomatter how bad you were the last few weeks/months of the RS. But don't stop moving on with your life because of this. I'm sorry everyone I was wrong. Continue moving on but keep in mind that your ex will come back, they will miss you and you'll live happily ever after. Much higher probability of it working this time because it worked do well the first time around. Also all of your other ex's that you aren't with now are all anomalies (they are the exception and not the rule). Again sorry for the false information.
Mr Reptile Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I'm sorry everyone I was wrong. Continue moving on but keep in mind that your ex will come back, they will miss you and you'll live happily ever after. Much higher probability of it working this time because it worked do well the first time around. Also all of your other ex's that you aren't with now are all anomalies (they are the exception and not the rule). Again sorry for the false information. My ex ex had ADHD, after a while she yelled at me constantly and even begin to blame my friends for "stealing me away from her". Eventually I had enough and ended it. You know what? I even missed her (really badly) after about 9-10 months. Even if she did very bad stuff and didn't treat me right I eventually missed her nomatter what she had done. I was thinking about the good times more than the bad times more than ever, even if she got problem with her temper. I'm not saying that all your exes will come back and miss you, but that they will never miss you or never think about you is just not true if you had a good time in your RS. But they may never wanna come back, be prepared, but we don't hear often about the success stories because why would they post here?
Simon Phoenix Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 My buddy is getting married to a girl he was broken up with for over a year. Not sure if he went NC or LC or just regular C with her, but they tried the first time for six months or so, it didn't work, they both moved on, ran into each other again and the second time was the charm. My sister just moved in with a boyfriend she was broken up with for over six months, most of which were very LC. It can happen. But, for it to happen you have to be able to move on without the other person, because if you never move on, you are doomed to the same bs that caused things to go south the first time. And these reconnections are rare, but for them to happen, there has to be a clean break and time without the other person to put everything in perspective. 1
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 I'm sorry everyone I was wrong. Continue moving on but keep in mind that your ex will come back, they will miss you and you'll live happily ever after. Much higher probability of it working this time because it worked do well the first time around. Also all of your other ex's that you aren't with now are all anomalies (they are the exception and not the rule). Again sorry for the false information. Lmaoooo come on man. Nobody will think this way. All I was getting across is that they will miss you eventually. If the love was true they will. Not want a second chance. I said, "whether it's for a second chance or just emotional support". This is how I see it. I got dumped. Made some mistakes because this is my FIRST BIG break-up and my first true love. Began NC 2 months ago. Now focussing on myself and doing best to keep my mind off of her hence why I'm thinking of my other ex's lol. But I KNOW she will miss me one day. I treated how every girl deserves to be treated. That's how I know she will miss me one day. Will that make her want a second chance with me? Most likely not since she was the one who left me in the first place but it will make ME feel better knowing she will miss me one day and Knowing that I know how to treat a woman. I'm not trying to get anybodies hopes up. I just know your ex will miss you one day if you treated them good. No matter what.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else. This is VERY true an I CANNOT WAIT!!
ParadeRain Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I've gone over 3 months with out a proper shower before. seriously. this forum would be such a sad place if it wasn't for people like you man
todreaminblue Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 (edited) I think our ex's will miss us eventually. Why? Well it's been 2 months since my ex has dumped me for another guy and I find myself looking back AT ALL my relationships I have been in and I miss my ex ex. The girl I dated BEFORE my current ex. I've had been in 4 relationships total. 2 of my ex's before my current ex I KNOW wouldn't work out so I don't miss them like I miss my ex ex. The 2 I know that wouldn't work was because one had a kid! (together for 1 month) lol. And the other one was just boring lol. (Together for 1 month). But my ex ex I dated for 3 months and now I am looking back and remembering things we did and everything. Like today, a song came on the radio that use to be "Our Song" and it brought back memories. I miss her. I dumped her because she didn't trust me but I never gave her a chance to gain the trust and I kind of regret it now with what happened with my current ex now lol. I keep thinking of my ex ex to get my mind of my current ex and it's working lol. I should have gave her a chance. So with me missing her I looked her up and actually texted her but she has a boyfriend now lol. I remember that when I dumped her she tried to ask for a second chance 2 months later and I told her I have moved on and that she should too lol. Well look at me now, wanting a second chance with her lol. Shame. My Point. Okay, your ex dumped you. It's over. But one day in the future they WILL get dumped and if they are like me, they WILL think you and most likely will miss you! Don't you think? I think they will eventually think of us. When they are lonely and sad like they made us. THAT'S when they will reach out to us and want something from us whether it's a second chance being together or just emotional support. What do you guys think? Now that you have been dumped, do you find yourself looking back on your other exes and begin missing them? I do. lol. Most likely because I'm now all alone but they will be too one day. I dont miss my exes....i have some good memories in there .....since i have had ect i tend to cherish my memories i have kept......good and bad i appreciate the fact i remember there is no missing there...just the ability to remember...i forget names i forget things i cant say i fit is ect related trauma related or lifestyle in my past related and i could over analyse everything...give myself a migraine o rjust live for now...i live for now.....i dont miss my exes.....i miss my future....and i miss a guy i enjoy spending time with now(who isnt even a boyfriend).......which is strange because it is little time i spend in his company..but i do miss him.....your exes probably will miss you .....i know that my ex misses me because of who i am ....thats not me being big headed dont think that...if you are a good influence in someones life , if you were there for them and they relied on you to make them smile there is no doubt that they will miss you at one time in their life or another. I miss the closeness i can have in a relationship.....being able to be close to someone i care about..not family and friends...i have that and i have plenty to who i can find closeness.....this is how i know i am ready for a relationship in my future.....i miss that closeness of a relationship.....having a best friend who is more than just a best friend......i wont get that from missing exes.....they are exes for a reason.......i think a lot of people mistake missing exes....from the simplicity of just being close to someone....if you let the missing the ex thing go....you simply just want to be close to someone again......not just anyone.....not in my case anyway...but someone special...and i am patient....i would and am willing to wait for that special person to actually be the one who misses me...thats the special part..... ..deb Edited October 24, 2012 by todreaminblue
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