treescholar Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 So we are both 22 and just started a 6 year program in college this fall. We kissed on after the first week when we were drunk and slept together two weeks after that, we clicked right away and hanged out at school and studied together after school. It progressed to the staged where we slept together after every party (once a week) Before we slept together she said she wasn't looking for a relationship because she needed some time to be by herself(was okay with that at the time). She said she might still have some feelings for her ex that she broke up with a year ago (wasn't a bad breakup it happened in another country and she had to come back home). She doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone who is going to be in the same class with her for 6 years because it might get awkward, but I feel she has gone too far if she doesn't want this to become awkward. After every sexual encounter she said that we should stop because she gets too emotionally attached but still we keep on meeting up on weekends. Last weekend I wanted to show her some respect and not contact her or tempt her but she called me up. Wtf? Also she says that this is the best sex she has had and she likes being around me. She is scared because this is progressing really fast and I totally agree with that. We talk on the phone every single day, have been doing that for almost 2 months, she calls first a lot the time. I still feel sexual tension between us. I don't know what's going on. What should I do? I like her and wouldn't mind something more, I'm trying to lower my expectations after what's been going on though. Is she falling for me? If she is getting emotionally attached why not try to not contact me for a while? Thank you for reading! Sorry for a long post Help is appreciated
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