zanzi Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 If having casual sex partners can hurt you, relationships can burn you, and being alone makes you lonely, what are you meant to do? I had a thing with someone but last night he told me it was over and I havent eaten today and cant stop crying. Worst of all we live together and its his house and I have nowhere to go. He said we can be friends and I said once someone dumps me im not going to be their "friend." a.k.a their comfort when their lonely until they find someone else. Only a few months ago I was dumped. Its not exactly dumping this time because it was more casual sex and companionship but either way the pain is the same, pretty much. I know it would be better to be alone and work on myself but does that mean I have to pass up casual sex too, which seems to be causing the majority of my problems: ie, casual sex turning into emotional attatchment on one or both sides? I dont care abotu him anymore, I dont want to go through months of heartache like I did last time. How do I make this a little bit easier on myself moving on? I want to move on but I need help.
SmileFace Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 First move out. Second don't move in so fast. 2
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