LTD_dude Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 So my ex blocked me on fb chat when we broke up and so did I , now I've unblocked her and she's unblocked me.... It's been nearly 4 weeks no contact and I'm going crazy to talk her . Am I reading too much into this or should I say something? I miss her terribly
LostOne1 Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 I guess that means she might not be mad now.. 2 things either she moved on or she has feelings and unblocked you to create a communicaiton channel... the thing is if she broke up with you.. then SHE should be the 1st to reach you.
love does not exist Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 **** that. Don't do it bro. You'll lose the game. I know this **** is hard, but you have to be strong.
Author LTD_dude Posted October 23, 2012 Author Posted October 23, 2012 I'm really seeing it as her creating a channel of communication alright... I'm trying my best to bring and it should be her to make the first move if she will at all. My mind is going a mile a minute rigt now
love does not exist Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 Just stay away from fb. I deleted mine totally. Shes like drugs, your going through a wd in a way. Stay away.
Author LTD_dude Posted October 23, 2012 Author Posted October 23, 2012 She's gone offline... Panic over. But the fact that she went out of her way to unblock is a little strange...
BeautyInTheWorld Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 **** that. Don't do it bro. You'll lose the game. I know this **** is hard, but you have to be strong. Ahaha, I love this!
CptSaveAho Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 You should send her flowers with a card while your at it... the card should say "Im a loser because you dumped me and I unblocked you from facebook chat. This must be a sign from god that we were meant to be together so here I am chatting with you, even though I know you are off dating other guys and having random hookups to try to get over the breakup. But please dont forget about me I will always love you forever Signed Your name"
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 YOU ARE WRONGGGGGG!!!!!! She never blocked you, she never had the option, you can't block someone who has already blocked you!!!! When you initially blocked her Facebook removes her as well, so you can't search her, you can't see photos that she's tagged in, nothing. This is not a sign I assure you. Source: ME, I blocked my ex only to unblock her to send a message. She in turn blocked me. 2
KatZee Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 YOU ARE WRONGGGGGG!!!!!! She never blocked you, she never had the option, you can't block someone who has already blocked you!!!! When you initially blocked her Facebook removes her as well, so you can't search her, you can't see photos that she's tagged in, nothing. This is not a sign I assure you. Source: ME, I blocked my ex only to unblock her to send a message. She in turn blocked me. Agree with this. If you physically went to her profile and hit "block" then she did not block you at all. You're the one that did it. When you block someone on Facebook, what FB actually does is DELETE that person from your friends list... I'm not quite sure how you're seeing her on your profile and chat list if you honestly blocked her. When you block someone and then unblock them, you have to go and re-friend them. 1
love does not exist Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 You should send her flowers with a card while your at it... the card should say "Im a loser because you dumped me and I unblocked you from facebook chat. This must be a sign from god that we were meant to be together so here I am chatting with you, even though I know you are off dating other guys and having random hookups to try to get over the breakup. But please dont forget about me I will always love you forever Signed Your name" This is just wrong lol
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Agree with this. If you physically went to her profile and hit "block" then she did not block you at all. You're the one that did it. When you block someone on Facebook, what FB actually does is DELETE that person from your friends list... I'm not quite sure how you're seeing her on your profile and chat list if you honestly blocked her. When you block someone and then unblock them, you have to go and re-friend them. He unblocked her. Also like I explained, when you block someone they are deleted from EVERYTHING!!! Not just your friends list. It doesn't work 1 way where you block them and can still see them but they can't see you. He couldn't of went to her account and unblocked himself because he was deleted from her Facebook. Her blocking you is impossible!!! Therefore she can't unblock what she couldn't block in the first place.
suladas Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I think from what he is saying they are still friends on facebook but they simply blocked each other on the chat on facebook, so you can't tell when they are online. I know because my ex did it to me, and yes you can still block them after.
LostOne1 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 YOU ARE WRONGGGGGG!!!!!! She never blocked you, she never had the option, you can't block someone who has already blocked you!!!! When you initially blocked her Facebook removes her as well, so you can't search her, you can't see photos that she's tagged in, nothing. This is not a sign I assure you. Source: ME, I blocked my ex only to unblock her to send a message. She in turn blocked me. Actually you CAN block someone if they block you. My ex blocked me and I blocked her back. If you know their email address they use on FB that is linked to their FB account.. you can block them too. You just type in the email address.
Carenth Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Delete her from facebook and move on with your life. She dumped you, she contacts you if she wants to. Even then I would be weary of communication. 1
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 Actually you CAN block someone if they block you. My ex blocked me and I blocked her back. If you know their email address they use on FB that is linked to their FB account.. you can block them too. You just type in the email address. I was mistaken, Lost11 is correct. However impossible for LTD to know if he was ever blocked.
mishy Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 blocking and unblocking, its all so.... breadcrumbs!! All this technology people hide behind instead of saying and acting on what they really want
LostOne1 Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I was mistaken, Lost11 is correct. However impossible for LTD to know if he was ever blocked. yeah he wouldn't know if she blocked him.. unless she blocked him first... then it's easy to know. But if you block them, then there is no way to know if they are blocking you unless you unblock them before them... blocking and unblocking, its all so.... breadcrumbs!! All this technology people hide behind instead of saying and acting on what they really want Exactly.. I hate when people hide behind things instead of confronting them.
Author LTD_dude Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 We're still friends on Facebook but he blocked me from chat show she doesn't show up online, and then I did the same but for whatever reason I unblocked er them boom there she is last night online. Which meant she went out of her way like me to remove the block... It does smell like a tiny bread crumb alright it's just all very confusing
Carenth Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 We're still friends on Facebook but he blocked me from chat show she doesn't show up online, and then I did the same but for whatever reason I unblocked er them boom there she is last night online. Which meant she went out of her way like me to remove the block... It does smell like a tiny bread crumb alright it's just all very confusing No it's not a bread crumb, you are trying to make strings out of nothing. Why are you putting yourself through needless pain just delete her from facebook, god I hate that website.
Author LTD_dude Posted October 24, 2012 Author Posted October 24, 2012 I dunno! I'm still having trouble dealing with it... A part of me still thinks there is hope I guess. Can't bring myself to delete her yet...
a.b Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 I dunno! I'm still having trouble dealing with it... A part of me still thinks there is hope I guess. Can't bring myself to delete her yet... Either way she dumped you, so if she wants to get back together or resume communication she will. Do not message her. In all likely hood like everyone is saying, you are seeing signs where there are none. It's what your brain does when you miss something so much, it makes connections where there are none. Even if she did unblock you doesn't mean she gave it much thought.
Carenth Posted October 25, 2012 Posted October 25, 2012 I dunno! I'm still having trouble dealing with it... A part of me still thinks there is hope I guess. Can't bring myself to delete her yet... I'm not trying to be mean, I've been through the same thing in the past. The day I deleted her off facebook and deleted her number was the day I started healing. Until then I was doing the same thing trying to draw straws from nothing.
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