There's this girl that likes me and i like her too, but the problem is

[thefuture]

there's this girl that likes me and i like her too, but the problem is that she thinks im too quiet, which i am. She said i need to be more open when talking to her on the phone. I don't know what to talk about, can somebody help.

[Stoo]

This may seem a tad obvious, but why don't you be more open and talk to her as if she was one of your good friends?

[lustmonkey]

no stoo you are wrong. If you are dating a woman you are supposed to be a mystery. No mystery= No challenge= No girl. Havent you ever noticed women say one thing and do another. Another good example of this is the word "Fine" but you can tell that they are not happy. Women love the chase. Become a challenge. They will love you. No challenge. Dump you in a heart beat. Enjoy that for awhile.

[thefuture]

i think that is was she is trying to do to me, become a challenge, what do you think i can do to reverse it or is it too late

[Johnny16]

Try to show her that shes wrong...be funny...most girls love guys that can be dorks and serious when needed.

[Stoo]

Originally posted by lustmonkey

If you are dating a woman you are supposed to be a mystery. No mystery= No challenge= No girl..

 

Thats not true..........why do women need a challenge? Wy cant you just be friends and evntually build up to going out. And i dont really appreciate you saying im wrong, everyone has their opinion, no-one is wrong.

[EC]

Ok coming from a woman the whole mystery thing is ok if done right but I hate that because then you are just playing games and wasting a girls time by trying to act all cool.

 

Just talk to her about your day or what she's doing or what your watching on tv.

 

Open up to her. I see you really like her so like the other post said talk to her like a friend.

When you guys hang out in person do you have a lot to talk about .?

[morrigan]

Do you have any hobbies or interests you like to discuss with your friends? Bring those up. Talk about books you've read, movies that you have seen or those that you wish to with her. Talk about things you would like to do in future. Discuss your favorite bands, concerts.

 

I've never been much for talking on the phone, especially lovey dovey BS to my boyfriend--I figure other people feel the same. Just say you're not much of a phone conversationalist, that you really prefer talking to her face to face.

 

Be yourself--playing games or putting on an act is silly. If she's known you for awhile, she must have realized by now that you are a quiet person. Not all women want men with big mouths--my boyfriend is quiet as hell, but one of the strangest, coolest guys I've ever known.

[seahorse]

I absolutely HATE it when men play games. Life is too short, just tell it like it is.

 

seahorse

[Tyson]

Dude,

I know exactly how you feel, I used to be the same way. Really all you have to do is talk about her, be daring and brave man. Ask her how her day has been and just stuff about her. She'll then ask about you and give it to her strait and she'll also talk back, pretty soon you have a conversation.

 

Peace!

[Guest666]

Dude, are you like 10?

 

Girls are just people... just talk. How hard can it be?

 

Have you gone through puberty yet?