syw0806 Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 we just started dating he used to give me a call back everytime when he misses mine. recently he doesn't call back at all and only calls back when I text asking him to call back.. he always reply my text though.. never send me one word text.. and sometimes he text first ask how am i doing,, is he trying to let me know he's no longer into it? why would he bother to send me pretty long text and sometimes questioning if hes not interested..? is he just being nice? he is very busy guy works +80 hr week so it's not that because hes boring or something.. maybe he's just mildly interested..? when i ask him to hang out he's always willing to, never coming up with excuses or canceling dates.. but just... i dont get it move on... ? we don't even call or text eachother that much like once in two three days just 4-5 texts back and forth.. he's early 30s so im pretty sure hes not playing mind game or so..
sweetkiwi Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 it doesn't matter how much you text a week, how old he is, how many hours he works. If he is interested you'd know. The fact that you're asking means he's not interested. Move on. Plenty of fish in the sea who don't need to be reminded to call.
River Rain Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 In either event, when you constantly have to chase a man and PROD him into returning your calls, it's painfully clear the interest level simply isn't there. I agree with this ^^. Don't be a doormat. Time to move on.
olivec Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 Well, if you've recently become intimate with him, that may have cooled him down now that the thrill of the chase is off (or because he simply accomplished his objective and is ready to move on). If that's NOT the case and you're newly dating but haven't been intimate, then it's probably likely something shinier has gotten his attention and he's keeping you on the backburner in case it doesn't work out. In either event, when you constantly have to chase a man and PROD him into returning your calls, it's painfully clear the interest level simply isn't there. exactly i had this happen to me with the last two girls i was dating. you gotta stop fighting it and move on. just delete the number your better off instead of begging for somebodys attention.
phineas Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 He's not calling back because men know 9/10 when women call it's utterly unimportant. We might call back every time in the beginning to get you to date us but most will stop after a while. Especially when we're working 80 hours a week. Well, partially this. OP, do you leave a message? If people don't leave me a message I assume it must not be important & don't call them back. I also don't like spending time talking or texting with someone & prefer to actually meet with them.
rocketman122 Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 some really crappy advice on this site. move on, break up, find someone else, he's cheating. why dont I hear from woman. be patient. try to work things out. fight for love. Im a warrior and dont give up so easily. in todays world, you have to consider yourself lucky to find someone you like or who you see potential with. look at the facts. the guy works 80+ hours. he gets back to you always. he asks you how are you, hes willing and goes on dates with you. he's not playing games IYO. its not that he isnt interested, its that he has no time for anything. he is interested but if youre expecting him to constantly call and give you attention then youre out of luck. he works 80+ hours.he's probably dead tired. either you have to be considerate of that and accept it like it is and be patient things will better or not accept it. if you like the guy then be patient and fight to make things better. unless youre an attention whore and then you should move along because he cant give you that now. 1
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