Twixis Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 Long story short, me and my ex dated for 2yrs, the first year was the best and we were very happy, it went downhill during the second year as my parents didnt like her, and her parents didnt like me so we could never spend time at houses, we would always have to sit in my car or stuff like that which took its toll. We broke up 1 week ago and she is already with someone new after only a few days of breaking up. She pretty much blamed me for the entire end of the relationship even though it wasn't totally my fault because that is the type of person she is. When we were happy I could tell she liked me, but whenever we would argue this other side came out. We broke up because of too many arguments because we both felt unloved and unwanted with each other, but obviously she blames it all on me of course. I talked to her today for the first time in a week and she was very angry and aggressive towards me, telling me how bad I made her feel all of the time, I did tell her that shes wrong but she wouldn't accept it, but when I told her how she made me feel she didn't even bother to respond? I don't want her back at all, I'm just hurt that she seems like she has moved on in less than a week? A week ago we met to say goodbye she was upset told me she still loved me etc but it wasn't going to work, a week later she is telling me how great this new guy is and how much she likes him and how he did all of the things I apparently didn't do, when I did, and that she has moved on already? I know she was very hurt over the breakup, and how we hurt each other, but has she really moved on in 1 week? and she knew this guy from when we were together, and everyone else who knew her was shocked to hear that she was with him, as she would always tell me and everyone else how she finds him unattractive and would never date him.
River Rain Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 It's possible to move on after one week, because in her mind it might have been over a lot longer than one week ago. Like, in my case, I moved on after a week because it was truly over 3 weeks prior, and during those three weeks, I already knew the inevitable was going to happen and I had already started to grieve and distance myself. And if she really is with a new guy, it could simply be a rebound. If the last time you spoke, she still held so much anger towards you, all the things she's saying could be spoken out of anger as well. There is so much emotion involved in a break up...I don't think you should necessarily speak with her again because you're hanging on to the hurt that way. And the worst thing to do is over-analyze things, just try to accept it's over and don't even care if she's seemingly moved on quicker than you or not. 1
BeautyInTheWorld Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 I don't think she's "moved on" even if she is with this guy...but...she sounds a bit of a waste of time too. Obviously, I don't know her but she doesn't seem like the sort of person that would make for a healthy relationship.
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