Tre Posted July 31, 2004 Posted July 31, 2004 OK, so listen to this and tell me what you guys think. I'm having some problems at the moment so if you can give me a few pointers it would be a great help. I am 23 and I came out of a 3 year relationship with a Japanese girl a year ago. I have just started going out with new girls. But the problem is, I have asked out a string of girls and they all say yes and I am pretty sure that they are interested but I never manage to get past the "friendship" stage. It's obviously a problem on my part becuase I'm living in Japan and they are all Japanese girls, therefore, usually they would never make a move. But I'm never good at making the first move although I'm usually quite confident. I have no problem getting the date, I just cant get any further. So, any advice on this would be good.
lustmonkey Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 no fear lustmonkey is here I know why you end up friendsed because you need to grab your testes and make the move because you are a man. Women never make the move. Women react, not act. Why do men get friendsed. Here is some of the reasons. you have long talks with her on the phone or in person. If you are doing this, this is the reason that you are friendsed. Easiest way out of the friendship zone is never go into it. It took me a long time on how not to get into it. Best way not to get into it. Make your move by Approach, Number close, Date, Kiss close, sex... I don't know much about the Japanese but the last japanese foreign exchange student we had I could have had sex with and what she told me. Aye Caromba!!!
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