kalik Posted November 7, 2000 Posted November 7, 2000 Ok, its been awhile since the break up that I went through, and I thank god for it. I am a much better person for going through what I did. But now there are a few girls that I have been around that wanted to get physical with me. And every time the touchy-feely thing starts, I pull away. Is it that I'm not yet ready because I'm still hurt, or is it because I'm just afraid of trying something new?
Deejette Posted November 7, 2000 Posted November 7, 2000 People are very casual about the touchy-feely things but they can lead to bonding and the start of feelings and affection. So take it slow so you won't be swept into the passion and believe that you are falling in love again. It is easy to feel sexual excitement for even the most horrible people in the world, when they dress nicely and are wearing their party manners. It takes a while to know someone. Could be either. Give yourself some time.
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